Fi, I keep meaning to post on here and say BIG HUGS about the stuff with your mum. Mine can be thoughtless like that sometimes too (telling me she wasn't sure I'd cope with two kids while I was pregnant with DD2

) but not quite as bad as that. I have no other advice after everyone else has said it all, just wanted to show my support and send some more cyber-hugs
And I posted this already in the other thread, but awesome to hear about Elle!