*sigh* After long discussions, DH and I have decided this is the best option for us at the moment because we really want to buy a house and need to save a bit more first. If I go back to work on the hours I was on before I left (32 hours), after 6 months I get some sort of lump sum (it was some scheme the DHB dreamed up to retain the nurses who were working mum's) which would really help. And while I'm working, DH can look after Bella a couple of days a week, work a few himself, and study towards finishing off his degree. Sounds complicated, I know, but it means more money for at least 6 months while we save and look for a house etc. and then once my lump sum comes through I can cut back and DH can go back to full time work...
Man, I'm going to miss this beautiful weather up here though

, but there certainly is more options for buying houses and we want to get into the market before its too late. So, I think we will be moving mid-January some time (which really isn't that far away

). Agggghhhhh, I HATE moving though...don't suppose anyone knows a cheap (but reliable) moving firm who move from Nelson to CHCH...??