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ALittleLoopy View Drop Down
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Points: 9103 		Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ALittleLoopy Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 13 January 2009 at 8:25am
Thanks for all your support guys. I know my hubby is really ready but then again he always has been lol right from the moment we met at 17!

hes a wonder with kids i know hell be an awesome father, he has a natural talent with them and now hes decided to be a primary school teacher which im so excited for him about!

Though I still have my doubts as i originally wantwed our own home and for him to at least have finished studying and be working full time somewhere before having kids because then id feel we had a really stable enviroment around them.
But looking at the reality at the moment is that hes just starting his study and itll take another 4 years, more if he doesnt pass straight up or changes direction again.

The worst thing is we are going to have to cut our savings amount in half as I lost my job due to bad health problems (which are being looked into FINALLY) but i am unable to work and i dont know for how long...so now we are only living on a part time wage as he gets no student allowance. I dont think well be able to think about kids realistically for a while now, but then as i said im not sure that im completely ready anyway, so i think we are going to have to wait another year and see where life takes us....bring on 2010 :P
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Points: 1155 		Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote sweetpea Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 13 January 2009 at 11:13am
Right time for my 2 cents . Personally i don't think we would have coped in the bieginning at least anyway with a bub at that age we were both still at uni. Now however is a different story its something i have we have been thinking about alot over the last few years and plan on strat trying later this year after our 1st anniversary.

The key things here i think need to be that you are both ready both emotionally and physically to have a child, that you have the money there for it, have the support from family and friends.
Are ready for life to go in a different direction than it is now. Remember though make the child part of your life not your life.

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