wedding invites

I agree Janine. I had one girl who really wanted to be a bridesmaid, and she was a really good friennd, but she moved to nelson late last year and still hasn't aknowledged my Dad's death or even Charlottes birth, and is supposedly a "good friend". I ended up with just one, and she was perfect.

Liz, you could always send out an email to guests with kids asking if you need to organise babysitters, that gets the message across, I did that, it worked a treat and got the message across without offending anyone.

lol Becks, you know who i'm talking about here too
She has a bit of a habit of kinda disappearing and not really staying in contact but usually will ring back at least if i leave messages on her answer machine. however that hasn't happened. Mike's been on for ages for me to cut it down to just the 1 anyway cos he doesn't get on with her and when we went trying on bridesmaid dresses, we had to reschedule 3 times, she then turned up, acted like she had to be somewhere, wouldn't even try the dam dress on, just chucked it up against her and said "choose what you like" and left again. Seriously haven't seen or heard from her since. hhhm I think that's my own arguement opened and closed really isn't it.