Sharing the load - how do YOU do it?

I do 90% of things to do with Leah, Jon bathes her and when he comes home from work will take over and entertain her so I can start dinner, fold washing etc. Although if I leave the washing sitting around for a while he will fold it and put it away, he has also been known to put the washing machine on and hang it out and bring it in again!! He also does the vacuuming, and all the outside stuff and empty the rubbish and sort out the recycling, and the big one is he cleans up after dinner every night, (and we have no dishwasher at this house!!!) I basically do everything else, although his list looks huge now so i'm not going to list all of mine!! We have our own business so while he does all the work for that I do all the accounts and bill paying.