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Neeks 
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Posted: 10 March 2008 at 5:44pm |
Man I hate my Mother Inlaw  .. she's trying to break up mine and my partners relationship because she's to frugal to let him live his own life and can't get a life of her own... She's making up lies that I don't like the kids and that I don't like his grandma, and lots of other stuff...
I've just spent the last past of today bawling my eyes out, as has my fiancee because he's scared she's going to win again and I'll leave.. I can't do that to him, he's been through so much.. raising his 3 kids on his own after their mother passed away when the youngest (now 8) was 3 months old. 
Why are there so many people out there that use a facade and then stab people in the back like this?? I'm so sick of being trampled on and treated like crap just because she's a heartless cow who wants to live her life through our family... I'm OVER IT!!!!!!!!
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Brenna
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Posted: 10 March 2008 at 6:45pm |
 What a horrible woman!!!
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Posted: 10 March 2008 at 7:32pm |
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OMG Neeks. I thought my outlaw was a biarch, but yours sounds like the Queen of all Biarch's.
I think the time has come to stand your ground. You and DP HAVE to stick up for each other.
You might have to confront her.
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Posted: 10 March 2008 at 7:43pm |
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I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!
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Posted: 10 March 2008 at 8:33pm |
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Posted: 10 March 2008 at 9:23pm |
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Posted: 10 March 2008 at 9:48pm |
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caraMel
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Posted: 10 March 2008 at 10:02pm |
That really really sucks Neeks, don't let her get her way!! You have my total sympathy. Mine is a sneaky, manipulative PITA too.
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Posted: 11 March 2008 at 7:14am |
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Big hugs what a horrible woman
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Posted: 11 March 2008 at 8:01am |
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yep sounds like you and dp will have to stand up to this woman sounds like she may be a little jalous of you and may feel she is lossing her place in his life big hug hunn
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Posted: 11 March 2008 at 9:39am |
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I hope your DF has a talk with his mum soon ... In the meantime what do you care what that stupid woman says?
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Posted: 11 March 2008 at 9:51am |
Rach you and i both know men wont talk to their mothers....ugh in laws!!!!!!!
Big hug from someone who has lived it...hmmm is still living it! 
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Posted: 11 March 2008 at 11:04am |
Thanks for all your support ladies..
She is using 3 innocent kids to play mind games with and to me that sucks, she keeps going on and on at them to tell her if something is wrong, and has taken bits here and there to turn it into a crock of sh*te.. if she had something to say why not say it to my face?? Is she scared I'd open a can of whoop arse on her? LOL
Last week I realised I have PND so she's certainly timed it right to kick me in the (if i had them) balls. I'm taking some St Johns Wort for my depression and talking to my DF & kids HEAPS so hopefully with some time I can work through it without having to go to a therapist of any kind
You're all great, no wonder I'm addicted to this place LOL
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Posted: 11 March 2008 at 4:57pm |
Don't you just wish you could open the can!!! I have MIL issues too, but my goodness, nothing that bad.
Big hugs, Neeks 
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Posted: 12 March 2008 at 2:48pm |
Yup you and your partner need to take a united front against you MIL. She is feeling threatened by you hence her attacks on your relationship.
She needs to know that this behavious is unacceptable, not only is she hurting you but her son as awell as her grandchildren, and they undoubtedly will sense the animosity she has. Don't let her continue to have this hold over you. If you're ballsy enough, confront her, let her know you're not going to take it anymore, that she needs to accept that you are not going anywhere. Tell her how you feel this is affecting the kids and that if she continues to have this attitude toward your relationship with her son that you won't allow her to be around your kids.
I hope this issue resolves itself. No way should anyone stand in the way of your union. I know we all have issues with our inlaws, my MIL is by noo means perfect, yikes you'd be suprised!!
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Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time*
