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11111 
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 Posted: 04 April 2007 at 9:09am |
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oh yeah and don't feel guilty you have no reason too. It is ok to be pissed.
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ginger
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Posted: 04 April 2007 at 9:40am |
I'm not going to comment on the situation mum2paris ... Everyone knows I have fertility issues, and therefore will hopefully understand why I don't want to get myself started ...I'd never stop 
I DID want to say to you though, that you are NOT hypocritical, and you shouldn't feel as though you are, or feel bad in any way for the children that you have and love. It's a good reflection on your values as a parent, and because you are a good and loving mum that you feel upset about your sister. Don't ever feel bad about that.
I just wanted to say that to you 
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Maya
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Posted: 04 April 2007 at 10:21am |
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Don't you just hate that you can't pick your family!
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The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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MummyFreckle
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Posted: 04 April 2007 at 11:55am |
Or your step-family! 
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mum2paris
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Posted: 04 April 2007 at 12:40pm |
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well realistically she is only my half sister. I guess that other half is the bad half. lol. Having a bit of a better day today. Was just so p'd off yesterday.
Have work in an hour or so so better get butt of computer and actually go get ready.
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busymum
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Posted: 04 April 2007 at 1:25pm |
I echo what Ginger said. I wanted to say that last night but didn't have the words. 
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nikkitheknitter
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Posted: 05 April 2007 at 12:41pm |
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Geepers. Pregnant again!!! Is she nuts?
I don't usually judge (having been in the accidentally pregnant way twice before) but having read many a post by you Janine over the years, feel so so sorry for you, your mother, and her children.
And eeeeeeeek at the adoption comment.
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caliandjack
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Posted: 05 April 2007 at 1:11pm |
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Sadly it seems to be the state of things out there. Those woman who would be wonderful mums and can't get pregnant, and those that get preggers just looking at a guy and don't seem to care about their babies.
Life just isn't fair sometimes.
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AlyAyde
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Posted: 05 April 2007 at 1:39pm |
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Im sorry but your sister needs to grow up and take responsibility for her own actions. She has been very lucky to have a great mum bailing her out. I can see why you are so pissed off with her. I am and i dont even know the girl.
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MummyFreckle
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Posted: 05 April 2007 at 5:50pm |
I can completely understand why you are peeved off - Its pretty shocking behaviour!
Looking at it from a different point of view (and obviously not passing any judgement on ANYONE!) - I think its very sad. Its sad that those children arent going to grow up with a relationship with their mum, or possibly the wider family (cousins, aunts etc). I wonder if your sister will look back on her decisions 10 - 15 years from now, and wish that she had made different choices.
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Andie
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Posted: 06 April 2007 at 4:40pm |
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Aw, man... I can see why you're feeling pi$$ed, Janine. It's not just her own life she's messing with but everyone elses, especially your yet-to-arrive little niece or nephew's! Some people.
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ok, you’ve got to be kidding
