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cuppatea
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 11:25am |
The only place I use them is at countdown and new world. All the malls and stuff the normal spaces seem good enough, and quite often are so packed you are lucky to get a normal park so would probably be impossible to get a parent one.
The one at countdown says new and expectant mothers. Dh complained about this as he reckons its sexist and that it means he shouldn't park there even if he has Spencer with him, to which I pointed out he has never actually taken Spencer shopping with him
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tishy
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 11:52am |
I use them if there's one free, which there never is a Porirua Shopping Centre.
At Woolworths in Johnsonville they're 'expectant mothers' parking also. I found this to be great as my baby brain was so bad I could never remember where I parked the car!!
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:06pm |
I stopped using the baby parks a few months ago now. She doesn't really qualify as a baby anymore!
And Brooke is a jerk. Can't wait to see how he feels when he has a kid or two to wrangle in the supermarket.
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:11pm |
i use them, I kinda figure that between the gremlins trying to get themselves run over and being eight months pregnant that i qualify.
I also have no issues with telling people off for parking in them without kids. And my pet hate is couples who park in them then one waits in the car with the baby while the other one goes in. IMO, if you're not getting the kid out of the car, you have no need for a parents park, don't be so damned lazy!
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:15pm |
We sometimes still park in one if they are free, especially if we are in B's 2 door and need to wrangle Miss M from out the back seat.
Often though we've found at the mall if we get a park next a pole these is heaps of room there too!
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:15pm |
We were with the MIL the other day and she pulled into the Mummy park (we had Keziah in the car) and she got the most wicked evils from this lady... Morgan (MIL) went absolutely off her nut... and the lady giving the evils quickly turned on her heels LOL
I usually park away from the entrances in the back lots.. the congestion is bad enough to keep me away
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:17pm |
We don't use them anymore.
We used them when we went to the supermarket in summer (they are outside)
I have been known to point it out to people who use and don't need to! Especially the disabled parking spots....grr  makes me angry when people use them and they don't need to.....I always check they are not displaying a sticker then make a point of commenting....
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:42pm |
cuppatea wrote:
The one at countdown says new and expectant mothers. |
I'm TTC, does that count??
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:52pm |
I park in them if I have Alyssa. Mainly because of the space to put the pram out beside the car out of the traffic.
But I don't use it if it's just me and the big girls that would be unfair even though no one would know as I still usually have the car seat in the car.
I get annoyed with people using disabled car parks as we used to have to use them when Natasha was sick and had a wheel chair. If people actually had to live a day in a diabled persons life they wouldn't use them.
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Bobbie
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 1:18pm |
We always head to them - they're generally much wider than normal parks which makes it much easier with a pram.
I like the idea of a 'new and expectant mothers' sign though. I remember when I was 8 months pregnant trying to squeeze out between our car and the one parked next to us - not fun!
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 2:27pm |
My DH complained to The Warehouse when they put mother's park on them. He worte them a great big dirty letter saying that he is not a mother but has chidlren and takes them out so why can't the be called parents parks.
The Warehouse changed the parks to the pram sign.
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 2:50pm |
cuppatea wrote:
The one at countdown says new and expectant mothers. Dh complained about this as he reckons its sexist and that it means he shouldn't park there even if he has Spencer with him, to which I pointed out he has never actually taken Spencer shopping with him |
ROFL thats so true.
I actually am yet to find a mothers park thats wider than a normal one. Maybe I just go to the wrong places. I actually think a pregnant lady deserves it more than me, its way worse having to walk further when pregnant than push a pram a few extra metres. I wouldn't mind if they had bigger parks further away just so its a bit easier for me and my monster pram. I hate having to leave one of the kids behind the car while I put the other one in the car.
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 2:56pm |
The ones we have seem to all have a picture of a pram and say parents parking, I have only seen them at one place where they say expectant mothers and new mothers, not that DP would use them anyway!
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 3:03pm |
I use them when i have Rhylz with me otherwise I find another park. In new Plymouth centre city there is only 2 (and yup they are right near the entrence) I think when I was pregnant (it is for expentant and new mothers) I could never get one and even since Having Rhylz I think I hv parked there once.
The other day a lady was in one who clearly wasn't pregnant or child (she was around 60 odd) and I was going to say something but she must of caught me on a good day and I just went and looked for another.
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 3:06pm |
I've stopped using them for now. But in another few months I will start again  (although they are rarely every available anyway!).
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 3:08pm |
I definitely head to those parks first and see if any are available before I go looking for another park. I've only managed to get it a few times. Once I was just walking past the park on my way to my car, and saw a car pulling out, with no children in the car whatsoever, with 2 very capable young people in it . I think the parks for expectant mothers is awesome. I used them when pg with Jett and Gia, loved them! Those parks always seemed empty, which was great that I could get one, but then wondered how many other expectant mums used them.
What that Howard-Smith guy said about how he uses them is so rude! He obviously doesn't think about how difficult it is to get children in & out of the car, or what a mission it is, to get safely inside the shopping centre with young toddlers/children after walking around the carpark with them!
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 4:15pm |
Oooh and when i was at Countdown earlier I was reminded of my other pet hate - people with disabled stickers who use the parents parks.
At our Countdown there are 2 parents parks and 12 disabled parks, and the disabled parks are never all full so it's totally unneccessary. I don't park in their disabled spots, they should stay out of my parent ones.
(Although incidentally I wouldn't have used them today anyway as i didn't have the gremlins and my fat pregnant self needs the exercise)
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 6:34pm |
If they are free then I use them, they are much easier for getting in and out. I had a lady have a go at me when I was prked ina normal park (no parent one's free) when I was getting Kate into the car, as I had the door open too far and she couldn't get into the park next to me (despite heaps of free ones further down).
I tried to complain at Centreplace in Hamilton about people using who definitely didn't have a pram - one woman had two teenagers with her. If they provide that service they should monitor. But they really didn't care.
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 6:40pm |
Yeah I park in them if they're available, which they usually are since I go shopping first thing in the morning when the mall opens. Most of the ones at Westcity in Henderson are nice and wide so not only can I get my fat arse out of the car, it's easy to get Alyssa out too.
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Posted: 09 June 2008 at 7:51pm |
That's a disgusting attitude! Yes I do park in them, every time if I can unless DH is shopping with me. The teens who park in there annoy me so much, I have been close to saying something to their face at times.
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