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  | Parki   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Topic: HELP!  Free Psychiatrist ?? Posted: 19 December 2008 at 10:44am
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   Hey Ladies,
 I wasn't really sure who to ask about this so here goes....
 I am actually terrified my best friend is going to harm herself.
 She is in major need in of some help but cannot afford to see a psychiatrist... If I could afford it I woudl pay but sadly, I am not a millionaire (yet).
 Does anyone know if you can get a referral through a doctor to be eligable for funded sessions or any other way she can get something funded?
 Im really really fearing for her safety.
   TIA
 Edited to add:  This actually is for a FRIEND, not a 'friend'!  
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  | Kellygirl   Groupie
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 19 December 2008 at 10:58am | 
 
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   You might want to contact your local Community Mental Health Centre and ask them for advice. She should def go see her GP and be referred to someone. 
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  | fire_engine   Senior Member
 
   
 
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 19 December 2008 at 11:17am | 
 
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   Yep, odds are she will be eligible for public mental health input.  Like Kellygirl said, her GP can refer her.  
 If you feel that harm is imminent, you can call the crisis line (will be in the blue pages of the phone book under the name of your local DHB) and they can then decide how to act.
 
 You can always give your local mental health services a call and double check about the referral procedure.  Will your friend willingly go to her GP? Can you go with her?
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  | rachelsea   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 19 December 2008 at 11:19am | 
 
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   Yeah I have a friend (also an actual friend, not a "friend" hehe) who got referred to a psychaiatrist by his GP and didn't have to pay for it. I hope she can get some help really soon! 
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  | Snappy   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 19 December 2008 at 11:25am | 
 
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   She sure can. Ive been seen by them before. I think the doc referred me initially. But Ive called the crisis team before for someone, the person has to be willing to be seen by them though (ie, you cant help someone who doesnt want to be helped IYKWIM) 
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  | 11111   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 19 December 2008 at 4:11pm | 
 
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 (ie, you cant help someone who doesnt want to be helped IYKWIM)
 
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 totally agree with tho at the end of the day if she is not ready to face and and ask for some help then no one can help them if that makes sence i don't mean to sound harsh, but people with mental health issues need to take some resposiblity for their on well being.
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  | WestiesGirl   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 20 December 2008 at 12:14am | 
 
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   This is the website and numbers for:
Samaritans : 0800 726 666 This is a very good support network.
 Depression Helpline: 0800 111 757
 Lifeline: 0800 543 354
 Im not too sure of her age but there is also Youthline: 0800 37 66 33
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  | Parki   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 22 December 2008 at 9:10am | 
 
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   Thanks for your help ladies.
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  | kabe   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 22 December 2008 at 10:45am | 
 
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   Hi, if you're really concerned about her safety, give your local DHB mental health crisis team a call. Sounds like she'll be eligible for free care within the public system. You sound like a really supportive friend.
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