Tell me I’m over reacting!?

I would be annoyed and I would correct her any time I hear her say it.   Prehaps get DH to have a word to her and let her know that her name is Amelia.

My SIL's name is Kerri and her dads side of the family all call her Kerri-Rose (Rose is her middle name). She is now 25 and they still do it.

My advice to you is get her to recognise her name is just Ameila because otherwise it won't stop and it may catch on.

I agree with all the other ladies so far - you need to have a word with her about it, or get your DH to. I would be annoyed if my mum or MIL was doing that too !

Maybe you could just suggest to MIL that if she insists on using middle names then she should use all names correctly, if your going to do it do it properly. If you really want to get her back up start using her middle name and DH ..... see how long it lasts!

Oh I have the same problem.....

Zaara's full name is Zaara Islam Maharaj....now Islam was my maiden surname.....but my MIL refuses to acknowledge that she has that middle name...so when ever people ask what her name is she says ...Zaara Maharaj.....I step in and say Zaara Islam Maharaj!!

May be do that....send her a thank you card and highlight the two middle names.

I got REALLY peeved when MiL decided that Caitlyn Lillie looked nicer than "Caitlin Lilly" (her actual name) WTF?!??! who's baby is this?!?!?!

The reason why we spell Caitlin with an "lin" is because she is the first grandchild of this generation that doesn't have a DH's family name (and we prefered this spelling, not just out to annoy, I promise) and we spell Lilly with two Ls because she is named after my Mum (middle name is Lillian). I was SO angry with her and 2 days after having a day is definitely NOT the right time to start screwing around with your kids name! So I let her have it with both barrells! mwhahahaha

So - yeh, Selina! Sort her out!

omg thats so rude.
i used to hate it when i was younger and people always worte cards to our family saying to Dave, Steph and girls me and my sister have names and we used to get really annoyed, esp since we always sent cards with everyones names including childrens.
I get told that Haleighs name is ahrd to spell, and that it should be Hayleigh or hayley but we like it the way we spelt it. I gave up on telling people how to spell it

Ann, maybe they had wrapped them to send before Rhyley was born and had a name? I know my SILs are/were pregnant and I had to go back and change one of the names when she was born - it was all wrapped and ready to go. As for the preggy sil, her bubbas present for xmas is adddressed to "baby Liz jr - just a suggestion". just found out it's a boy so will have to change that one too.

I am totally anal about my kids names too (especially with all the drama I had over naming Sienna ). Maya's proper name is Maya Grace, and although I often call her just Maya (My-a)I like people to call her Maya Grace and when she gets cards etc. for them to have her proper name (her full name is Maya Grace Te Irirangi Marama Davis). My biggest pet hate is people that call her "My" - like Maya is such a long name! She also gets Mia a lot and May - a but she is starting to get grumpy about that and tell people off herself!

With the twins I am constantly getting asked why I spelt Sienna with 2 'n's , I have no idea, I just liked it that way! And I had someone tell me that I *should* have spelt Mercedes with a Z (Mercedez) SHOULD? Hello, my child, my naming rights! They have almost as many names as Maya (Sienna Marie Anahera Jayde and Mercedes Kailah Waimarie Faith).