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  | womblecat   Newbie
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Topic: 18 mo hates bathing, any tips? Posted: 26 August 2010 at 3:50pm
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   My 18 month old daughter hates bathing (bath or shower).  This seems to have developed over the last 3 - 4 months.  Any tips?  
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  | Kellz   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 26 August 2010 at 4:07pm | 
 
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   Make it a game! Let her wear togs, put no water in the bath, fill up pots, bowls etc from the tap and play with them to show its fun and take the pressure off. Doesnt matter if she doesnt get washed much the first night!
Put a drop of food clouring in the bath so its a differnt colour.
 Get in with her and let her wash you.
 
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  | jazzy   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 26 August 2010 at 4:09pm | 
 
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   Does she like bubbles? Or maybe a special soap wash...mine all went through it & in the end I added it to the reward list & they got stickers for it. I also did speed showers.
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  | Jelly   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 26 August 2010 at 4:12pm | 
 
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   Ooh yes food colouring! I would have loved that as a kid.
   That wasn't very helpful was it?
 Mountains of bubbles could be fun too.
 Maybe new bath toys? New toys are always good.
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  | Chickaboo   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 26 August 2010 at 4:28pm | 
 
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   We went through similar with our son - think he was round 2 years old. We just couldn't get him in the bath without a screaming and crying match.. in the end I got some really cool bath toys and put them in the bath where he couldn't reach them and HAD to get in the bath to play with them... I even got in the bath and played with them saying how much fun it was...
 IT worked and Now he loves the bath (and shower) and hates getting out!
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  | AandCsmum   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 26 August 2010 at 9:53pm | 
 
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   I think my boy is starting this as well. Luckily he likes the shower. Also you don't really need to bath every day, top & tailing can do on the in between days.
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  | nathansmummy   Senior Member
 
   
 
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   My niece did this about the same age - around 2yo.  My husband (her favourite uncle!) would bath her and play loads of silly games with  her and she got over it eventually.
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  | busymum   Senior Member
 
   
 
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 28 August 2010 at 9:55pm | 
 
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   My DD has recently been through this. I wonder if the temperature had been a little warm for her one day but whatever the case, she would scream the entire time. We kept the bath shallow so the water wouldn't threaten to topple her; I also stopped bathing her when two of the other girls were in the bath as they kept shrieking for fun but I think that may have been scary for her. I also dropped her bathtimes to about every 3 days so it didn't have to occur so often. One day I happened to bath her in a different bath (we have two LOL) and she really enjoyed it. No idea why. But since then she has been fine. She really enjoys playing with pouring toys in the bath (once she outgrew the urge to drink from them!) which are best obtained from laundry powder boxes    | 
 
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  | pikelets   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   DS did the same at a similar age.  
 We found lots of encouragement, praise, toys and I also jumped in with him once and he eventually liked it again.  now its hard to get him out!    | 
 
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  | flakesitchyfeet   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 29 August 2010 at 8:38am | 
 
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   Definately the food colouring! We've done this with DD, she's just learnt her colours and is obsessed with them around her at the moment, and loves choosing which colour to chuck in there. 
 Make it a fun place not at bath time? Another fun game with food colouring is to chuck some random drops in an empty bath with a bit of ice, and the child in their togs. That doesn't make sense.....hang on:
   Lol it doesn't look like she's having much fun there, but it kept her going for a good hour.
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  | xLUCKYx   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 30 August 2010 at 12:42pm | 
 
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   My lil boy went through a phase of hating the bath/shower and so I would put him in, do the business and take him out. Quick and painless. It only lasted a few weeks and he was into it again.
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