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thats how i feel too ellen. as long as my kids are happy at the end of the day, and i feel rich in a different way,i feel blessed to have my beautiful girls, and a wonderful husband.. they make me happy, and make life LIFE they dont care about clothes or getting flash things (yet) and i hope i can continue to install (that the right word?!) the same values in them that i grew up with.

it is tough though when you struggle to make it week to week and get the stopid bills paid. we struggle a lot and i feel for families that are worse off than me because i find it hard and know there are people with less than me, it doesnt seem fair.



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I don't know how we coped now, but when we first got married, my inlaws gave us $50 a week because our income was that much less than our expenses!
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The joys of trying to start our own business aye According to the calculator that Sara posted we're eligble for $224.00 per week accommodation supplement!!!
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Gah ... yep, know the feeling. DH has been stressing a bit lately about it all, which in turn makes me stressed. But I have utter faith we'll be fine - something always seems to work out.

Am hoping he'll get a payrise, which will be back-dated, but still waiting to hear - wish they'd hurry up so it can go in this month's pay! Oh yeah .. he gets paid monthly!
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I figure as long as the kids have food, we have a roof over our head and power etc... then everything else just has to wait. Its just scary when you add up all the debt! We dont qualify for much family support in fact we would be better off financially if i didnt work but mentally i need the break. Maybe I'll win lotto this week, yeah right.
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Yeah Clare, it was a real surprise to be eligible for it for us too!
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I love money - I just wish it was more attracted to me.
As a former WINZ worker (sshhh), it is sometimes worth making an appointment with one of their non-beneficiary case managers just to pick their brains for half an hour over what is available. They often know about extra assistance through IRD and all sorts of other places.

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Because I'm self employed a lot of my income is written off as expenses which means we do qualify for a bit of FS and an AS which is good, every little bit helps.
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Originally posted by my2angels my2angels wrote:

Maybe I'll win lotto this week, yeah right.


ahhh robyn me too! if only i could afford a ticket
i just wish DH and I had a mortage instead of paying someone elses   oh well, i'm sure we'll get one before i'm 50

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i hear ya ladys i stuggle every week with money but asong as james is happy and so what if i have to layby his clothes or not buy any for me or live with me parents till i can afford to live alone ok i relly hate being poor
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Originally posted by jacks mum jacks mum wrote:


i just wish DH and I had a mortage instead of paying someone elses


They're not *that* appealing surely I consider that the 'M' word !!
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Grr - mortgages!!!

One of main reasons I'm heading back to work just 6 weeks after bubs is born - otherwise we won't be able to afford to pay for the house and live at the same time!
    
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Gosh, you people and your "wanting to live" AND have a roof over your head! fussy!!

I hate living week to week. I wish we cvould win big wednesday....funny after that $10million went, they were advertising $2 million. Lewis and i were both, "huh, poxy $2 million, thats not enough"...then later realised what we had said! Hey, $20 would be pretty good. Course, people don't tend to win things unless they buy tickets..

ALTHOUGH, according to my email, i have won $20,million euros in a Nigerian Lottery I didn't buy tickets for. i must keep it a secret however, and send them $100 to pay for the taxes. sounds reasonable....
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Originally posted by mum2emj mum2emj wrote:

thats how i feel too ellen. as long as my kids are happy at the end of the day, and i feel rich in a different way,i feel blessed to have my beautiful girls, and a wonderful husband.. they make me happy, and make life LIFE they dont care about clothes or getting flash things (yet) and i hope i can continue to install (that the right word?!) the same values in them that i grew up with.

it is tough though when you struggle to make it week to week and get the stopid bills paid. we struggle a lot and i feel for families that are worse off than me because i find it hard and know there are people with less than me, it doesnt seem fair.




That exactly how I feel too Rach those supermarket wages our hubby's earn are just not enough tho aye.

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It's a tough one, we always want more! But when I think about it, we just lived off Student Allowance and FS for 3 years with only a little part-time income on the side, and it was really tough. But we learned how to budget and now, even though DH gets not much more than minimum wage AND is on-call (so if there's no work one day he doesn't get paid) we are actually doing pretty well. But it sure takes guts to decide to live within that and stay home and give myself to my kids instead of going out to work all for a bit more cash.
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