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mum2emj
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Posted: 08 December 2006 at 9:39am |
thats how i feel too ellen. as long as my kids are happy at the end of the day, and i feel rich in a different way,i feel blessed to have my beautiful girls, and a wonderful husband.. they make me happy, and make life LIFE  they dont care about clothes or getting flash things (yet) and i hope i can continue to install (that the right word?!) the same values in them that i grew up with.
it is tough though when you struggle to make it week to week and get the stopid bills paid. we struggle a lot and i feel for families that are worse off than me because i find it hard and know there are people with less than me, it doesnt seem fair.
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daikini
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Posted: 08 December 2006 at 10:33am |
I don't know how we coped now, but when we first got married, my inlaws gave us $50 a week because our income was that much less than our expenses!
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Jay_R
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Posted: 08 December 2006 at 10:35am |
The joys of trying to start our own business aye  According to the calculator that Sara posted we're eligble for $224.00 per week accommodation supplement!!!
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luna
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Posted: 08 December 2006 at 10:35am |
Gah ... yep, know the feeling. DH has been stressing a bit lately about it all, which in turn makes me stressed. But I have utter faith we'll be fine - something always seems to work out.
Am hoping he'll get a payrise, which will be back-dated, but still waiting to hear - wish they'd hurry up so it can go in this month's pay! Oh yeah .. he gets paid monthly!
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my2angels
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Posted: 08 December 2006 at 1:09pm |
I figure as long as the kids have food, we have a roof over our head and power etc... then everything else just has to wait. Its just scary when you add up all the debt! We dont qualify for much family support in fact we would be better off financially if i didnt work but mentally i need the break. Maybe I'll win lotto this week, yeah right.
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Peace
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Posted: 08 December 2006 at 1:41pm |
Yeah Clare, it was a real surprise to be eligible for it for us too!
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emeldee
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Posted: 08 December 2006 at 2:18pm |
I love money - I just wish it was more attracted to me.
As a former WINZ worker (sshhh), it is sometimes worth making an appointment with one of their non-beneficiary case managers just to pick their brains for half an hour over what is available. They often know about extra assistance through IRD and all sorts of other places.
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Maya
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Posted: 08 December 2006 at 2:37pm |
Because I'm self employed a lot of my income is written off as expenses which means we do qualify for a bit of FS and an AS which is good, every little bit helps.
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jack_&_charli
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james
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Posted: 08 December 2006 at 5:47pm |
i hear ya ladys i stuggle every week with money but asong as james is happy and so what if i have to layby his clothes or not buy any for me or live with me parents till i can afford to live alone ok i relly hate being poor
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Posted: 08 December 2006 at 11:05pm |
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yummymummy
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Posted: 09 December 2006 at 7:02am |
Grr - mortgages!!!
One of main reasons I'm heading back to work just 6 weeks after bubs is born - otherwise we won't be able to afford to pay for the house and live at the same time!
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lizzle
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Posted: 09 December 2006 at 8:07am |
Gosh, you people and your "wanting to live" AND have a roof over your head! fussy!!
I hate living week to week. I wish we cvould win big wednesday....funny after that $10million went, they were advertising $2 million. Lewis and i were both, "huh, poxy $2 million, thats not enough"...then later realised what we had said! Hey, $20 would be pretty good. Course, people don't tend to win things unless they buy tickets..
ALTHOUGH, according to my email, i have won $20,million euros in a Nigerian Lottery I didn't buy tickets for. i must keep it a secret however, and send them $100 to pay for the taxes. sounds reasonable....
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11111
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busymum
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Posted: 09 December 2006 at 11:05am |
It's a tough one, we always want more! But when I think about it, we just lived off Student Allowance and FS for 3 years with only a little part-time income on the side, and it was really tough. But we learned how to budget and now, even though DH gets not much more than minimum wage AND is on-call (so if there's no work one day he doesn't get paid) we are actually doing pretty well. But it sure takes guts to decide to live within that and stay home and give myself to my kids instead of going out to work all for a bit more cash.
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