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  | TheKelly   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 01 August 2010 at 9:13pm | 
 
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   When I was pregnant with C , my best and oldest friend got pregnant when I was about 7 months pregnant , and I was sooooo jealous, I was convinced she had done it on purpose because she was jealous of me getting the attention and now that she was pregnant , everyone would forget about me , and only care about her .
That didn't happen tho , and C and her daughter are bestest friends, so it worked out well ...
 But at the time, oooh yeah , I was jealous !
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  | rachb   Groupie
 
   
   
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   I thought that it was just weird that I was envious/jealous of others round me that were getting pregnant, we have just had 2 girls at work that have left to have babies and now there are another 2 who have just found out they are pregnant. 
 
 Babies are just everywhere at the moment, oh well I will have my turn soon
 
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  | _H_   Senior Member
 
   
 
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 07 August 2010 at 8:17pm | 
 
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   CC i think we are the age where a lot of people are getting UTD. Everytime i look on facebook someone new is UTD (and that isnt counting the OB girls)
 my boss is pregnant and everytime she complains about being fat i want to scream at her that she is actually pregnant and should enjoy the miracle of her baby growing inside her!
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  | cruzychic   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 07 August 2010 at 8:25pm | 
 
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   i know what you mean H it just seems unfair sometimes how all the other people I know are falling pg just like that or by accident and we can't. I have a cynical friend who has said The "good things that come to those who wait" are really just leftovers from people who got there first, sorry. Sometimes it feels that way 
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  | balcy1   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 17 August 2010 at 10:56pm | 
 
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   Jealous is an understatement.
I cry everytime I hear of someone getting pregnant, and then again when their babies are born.  I cant help thinking, "why cant it be my turn?"
 
 My BFF has just had baby #2, and we both starting trying for #1 at the same time.
 
 I know I am blessed to have a son already.  But when he was a "Surprise" pregnancy, I never would have thought it would take this long TTC for #2.
 
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  | CrazyCass   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 20 September 2010 at 11:15am | 
 
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   Yup know how you all feel! We have just had 1 baby born to a mate (They werent trying & she drank during the pregnancy) and we have another 5 due before March. 
DF kept saying we need to do this, or we need to do that before we start trying.
 I've finally put my foot down & set a date, otherwise we'll never be 'ready'
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  | BabyRixon   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 20 September 2010 at 12:31pm | 
 
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   Yeah everyone around me seems to be UTD. You know - the couples not trying. My single friend who is "not sure" with whom she conceived! And DP numerous cousins
 I'm a green eyed monster    
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  | CrazyCass   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 22 September 2010 at 12:09pm | 
 
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   Yup it certainly seams to be the people that aren't trying that its happening for - and then they dont appreciate it.
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