Major single mum vent.

caitlynsmygirl wrote: well, Caitlyn is my responsibility , yes, BUT, DP and I are committed to each other and as such , he is committed to Caitlyn , so he does take some responsibility for her too, just cos your a single mum doesnt mean you have to be a martyr and prove that you do it all when you are in a serious , committed relationship, if i did that DP would be offended, he loves Caitlyn just as much as her real dad does ,and is going to be (unless something really drastic happens) the father of my other kids-if i took all the responsibilty for Caitlyn, all that would do is succeed in singling Caitlyn out from her siblings

Exactly how I feel.

Tobin does a lot for Han - as in this morning got her up and gave her breakfast while I slept in... ahhhh blissss... though I maintain financial responsibility for her and do the childcare drop off and pick up stuff.

If anything it's relationship building for them. Atleast that's what I tell myself so I can sleep in just that liiiittle bit longer.