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  | shadowfeet   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 06 October 2010 at 12:09am | 
 
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   Go you for standing up for yourself, especially if it stops that doctor saying something similar in future to another woman Good luck for the rest of your pregnancy, I hope it goes quickly and healthily for you  | 
 
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  | Hibiscus   Senior Member
 
   
 
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 14 October 2010 at 2:50pm | 
 
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   Lil_lease, I am so sorry about your loss. It's been a few months now and you are pregnant again  - which is wonderful, congratulations! But I'm sure you'll never forget Antony. So my heart goes out to you and the other mums who have lost a baby as it must be the hardest thing ever that can happen to a mum. All the best for your pregnancy!
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     Mum to 3 girls: identical twins and with a 3 year gap another girl.
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  | MacKat   Newbie
 
   
 
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 21 October 2010 at 2:32pm | 
 
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   I know your pain. We lost our twin boys on April 3 so I hope they are playing with Antony up there and looking after each other. And being the wee rascals that boys are! Take care. I have found my Sands group to be wonderful.
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  | lil_lease   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 23 October 2010 at 3:25pm | 
 
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   Thankyou MacKat. Sorry for you losing your precious twins.
 Boys being buys they probably are up there making lots of mischeif    We dont actually have a Sands group in my town, but this forum has helped me greatly.
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     Antony, gone but never forgotten 2-4-2010
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  | Raspberryjam   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 24 October 2010 at 10:08pm | 
 
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   I cant remember if I ever replied as your story was so raw for me. I have a heart child, and only for the grace of god is she still with us.
I  think the fear of loosing a child is the closest thing I have ever known to desperation,  In no way do I understand what its like for you I just wanted to say I am so sad for you and hope each day brings you closer to smiling when you think of your precious boy
 Congratulations on your pregnancy, I can imagine its a nerve wracking time for you as much as a celebration, that bit I can almost relate to.
 All the best and much much love and strength to you xx
 
 
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  | Zaylah   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 21 November 2010 at 1:56pm | 
 
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   Lisa - I've been thinking about you a lot the last couple of days and debating whether or not two write anything. 2 days ago would have been a huge day for you and I just wanted you to know that I, and a lot of the OB ladies still think of you and your son and family. Take care xxx
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  | lil_lease   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 21 November 2010 at 11:43pm | 
 
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   Thank you Zaylah. This week has been a hard week for me and mine, but we're getting through it one day at a time. I've been ultra paranoid about every little twitch and twinge, or lack thereof but everything is going well and my midwife is quite happy with everything so I'm happy.
 I have a blog where I have been writing about my pregnancy and everything that goes with it. Blog Thanks everyone for your support, well wishes and sympathy over the past several months. It has meant a LOT to me.    | 
 
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     Antony, gone but never forgotten 2-4-2010
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  | rachndean   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 24 November 2010 at 8:54pm | 
 
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   Hey Lisa    I just wanted to stop in and send you a big    , and say that you're blog is great! You are so clever with words!!
 I hope you are getting through this week ok, you are amazing woman!!
 Arohanui xo
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        DD  Savannah 18.01.04
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  | amalyse   Groupie
 
   
 
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 17 August 2011 at 11:42pm | 
 
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   Awwwwwwww I just read this :( I never knew what happened with Antony. Now my little lady shares the same birthday as Antony's little bro. I bet he's looking down over Seth and looking out for him always xxx
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  | Inkedpixie   Senior Member
 
   
 
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 09 January 2013 at 9:44pm | 
 
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   Wow, I just read this,  there really are no words.  I just... I am so sorry for your loss xx
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