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  | mum2ollie   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Topic: Find myself obsessed... Posted: 07 September 2010 at 2:21pm
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   So I think I'm obsessed. Whenever I'm online I find myself googling like mad about woman getting pregnant right after micarriage. I do this EVERYDAY multiple times a day. I just think that if it can happen for them surely it can happen for me? I want another baby so bad I feel like my heart is going to explode. Still waiting for AF to make her grand entrance. 
Sorry guys, just needed to have a bit of a confession.
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  | ElfsMum   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 07 September 2010 at 3:26pm | 
 
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   its ok..and normal i think.. people react in different ways and it can really consume you..hard as it is for me I had to take a step back...away from google and just chill a bit.. :( it's totally hard though and I have had two mc's so i understand! 
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  | Emmi_   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 07 September 2010 at 6:47pm | 
 
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   I was exactly the same M2O, its when I started charting so I knew when I had oved and when AF was going to arrive etc, I feel it helped me have some 'control' over what was happening... 
Anyway, totally normal!
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  | spanky77   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 07 September 2010 at 8:04pm | 
 
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   Yup *feels m2o's forehead* normal. 
 It feels obsessive, all consuming and I remember feeling I just wanted to be pregnant again ASAP.
 Google is good for some info, but bad if you have access 24/7, as its so easy to indulge the obsession.
 
 
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  | Bobsta   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 07 September 2010 at 9:14pm | 
 
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   Oh this is totally normal!  I went from one extreme to another and then back again    I think it's because everything is so out of our control that we are trying to find a way to gain back some control.  I felt like reading and planning made me feel like I was at least doing something.
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  | mum2ollie   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 07 September 2010 at 10:43pm | 
 
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   Thanks everyone :) DP has promised to keep me google free for all hours of the day he is home to help. Thank goodness for that right?
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  | Princess_Bubs   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 08 September 2010 at 10:06am | 
 
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   Completely normal and understandable    I am a serial googler/ohbaby'er. Every minute I'm at work without something to do - Here I am again. 
 Not trying til next year and it's all consuming for me already.
 I'm going away overseas for a month on friday and will probably not get near a computer and am a little bit nervous about it. No ohbaby for a month!?!?!    | 
 
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