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   mamanee  
   
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     Topic: Times are changing again!     Posted: 01 August 2008 at 9:44pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   Sam's dad has finally decided that he does actually love us, wants us to be a family and that we DO have a future.
 
Right when it seemed I had gotten over him and moved on.
 So it seems we'll be getting married and TTC #2 early next year!
 I never thought I would see the day, but family comes first for me and we're both willing to make it work this time, so I am starting to feel good about things again.
 For a little while I was vehemently against us getting back together because frankly, I have never despised a man so much in my life, and loved him probably just as much.
 We're in debt, our sex life is terrible, he doesn't have a job and we're living with my mum, so we're driving each other mental, and we have a lot to sort through but I actually might be happy!
 And... we're moving to Christchurch!  I think!  I hope!  Soon!
 So... watch out Christchurch mummies!  I'm coming to gatecrash your meetups!
         
    
   
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     Posted: 01 August 2008 at 9:46pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   Congrats Renee! I hope everything works out for you guys    
    
   
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     Posted: 01 August 2008 at 9:53pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
        wow thats awsome, so exciting for you!!
     
   
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     Posted: 01 August 2008 at 9:56pm | 
 
 
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   Wow! You were obviously meant to be together.  Hope things work out for you all.
    
   
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     Posted: 01 August 2008 at 10:07pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   
   .Mel wrote:
  Wow! You were obviously meant to be together. Hope things work out for you all. |    
What Mel said. 
    
   
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     I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!
     
   
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     Posted: 01 August 2008 at 10:10pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   Aww thats so cool for you guys    
    
   
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     Posted: 01 August 2008 at 10:30pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   awwwwww hun i'm so happy that you are happy!!!!!!       
i know you and 'DF'    have been through alot and i'm so glad to see you come out the other end together and happy    
yeah...move to chch...that's where all the cool people live   
    
   
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     Posted: 02 August 2008 at 12:35am | 
 
 
  
   
   
   That's really cool. I'm happy for you Renee and I wish you guys all the best    
    
   
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     Posted: 02 August 2008 at 8:08am | 
 
 
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   Congratulations Renee
    
   
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     Posted: 02 August 2008 at 8:26am | 
 
 
  
   
   
   oh Renee, I am so pleased for you. That is great news.
   
    
   
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     Posted: 02 August 2008 at 11:41am | 
 
 
  
   
   
   Congrats Renee   
    
   
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     Posted: 02 August 2008 at 12:05pm | 
 
 
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     Posted: 02 August 2008 at 1:59pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   re: sex life - Sex isn't everything, I've gone well over 2 years without it now and it hasn't effected me one bit, I feel quite empowered actually & I don't need a man    (other than my little guy that is   )
 That's great that things are going well for you chick & congrats on the engagement. BTW I saw the photos of your lil man in photo gallery - he is such a gorgeous wee thing, as is his mummy    
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     Posted: 02 August 2008 at 7:54pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   re: sex life - Sex isnt everything ... DH and I covet sleep more than anything now Issy is here    
    
   
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I did it .. 41 kgs gone!  From flab to fab in under a year    LFs weight blog
     
   
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     Posted: 02 August 2008 at 8:01pm | 
 
 
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   Congrats!
    
   
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     Posted: 02 August 2008 at 9:07pm | 
 
 
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   Congratulations, a lot going on and a lot to think about too.
 
 
    
   
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