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   Two Blondinis  
   
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     Posted: 07 June 2007 at 11:38am | 
 
 
  
   
   
   Ohhhh now I understand why it hurts so much!    
We (or I if we're bing honest) waited 3 months too, due to never being in the mood (shattered all the time).
 It's still tender (in an ouchie sort of way) even now     Hope it gets better before we start TTC as it's not a good incentive!
 I'm gonna start a new post "Things we should have been told post CS"
     
   
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     Posted: 07 June 2007 at 2:19pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   We used lube (quite often until AF returns you will be a bit drier down there) but also found that the more regular, the sooner things stretch. Hehe you don't talk about this stuff at coffee groups either!      
    
   
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     Posted: 07 June 2007 at 10:57pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   DH finally got his smile back last week....!!!!    
NO mood and seriously I envisioned my scar ripping apart...silly i know but was NOOOOOO incentive to go there!!!
     
   
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     Posted: 09 June 2007 at 10:53pm | 
 
 
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   We waited for 12 weeks, I was nervous more than anything. My poor partner, I sooo lucky hes very suppportive and waited till I was ready.
    
   
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     Posted: 11 June 2007 at 1:50pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   We waited 2 weeks, the day I got home from hospital DH jumped me lol. It didnt hurt and I was still bleeding but we had a lovely shower afterwards    
    
   
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     Kayla Rose is now 4!
 James Sydney is nearly 2!
     
   
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   mamanee  
   
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     Posted: 16 June 2007 at 10:03pm | 
 
 
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   I was thinking that maybe I was a bit too quick to jump back on the horse (so to speak)(LOL) reading everyones posts, but then I got to the bottom and I see that someone else (Kell) was quicker than me!  Nothing wrong with that though!  I had my first special cuddles this morning and it didn't hurt and pretty much no blood either, so was great!  So yeah, three weeks and four days after surgery.
    
   
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     Posted: 17 June 2007 at 10:31am | 
 
 
  
   
   
   ROFL    
Glad you had fun
     
   
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     Kayla Rose is now 4!
 James Sydney is nearly 2!
     
   
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   midnight_sakura  
   
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     Posted: 21 June 2007 at 2:36pm | 
 
 
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   I find the special cuddles after a CS including being revirginized gives me alot of pain in the abdomen/pelvic area afterwards for a day or so.. does that happen to anyone else?
 
    
   
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     Posted: 21 June 2007 at 4:13pm | 
 
 
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   I am finding the same thing Americanbaby.  Although I have this pain on one side of my abdomen/pelvis all the time when I move, it seems to be worse after special cuddles.  I guess it's just all part of healing. 
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     Posted: 21 June 2007 at 5:07pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   I have endometriosis as well and i was wondering if that was the cause of the pain.  So its good to know that it is related to the CS instead  
I even get the pain without cuddles... 
     
   
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     Posted: 21 June 2007 at 6:42pm | 
 
 
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   I thought mine was because of retroverted uterus, cause I have felt it at other times too. Although the c/s did make things a bit more tender for a while.
    
   
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