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almostthere 
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Posted: 28 February 2008 at 2:37pm |
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Omg, I spoke to a customer on Friday about credit cards detials. He called agian today to ask for me and requested a CC from to be email.
He then used my name which is fairly uniique to find me on Facebook!!!!! Im a little freaked.. Luckily i spoke to my boss who is going over the protocols, but still!
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Shezamumof3
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Posted: 28 February 2008 at 2:44pm |
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Eeek thats scary!
I had something kinda like that once from NZ Dating. I had this freaky weirdo that seemed normal to start with, and then I backed out of meeting him(thank god) and said i wasnt interested etc and he would call me ALL the time and txt me all the time, I never answerd his called or txt him back and he just kept doing it, then once he called and this was the last time cos my friend txt him off her phone and told him as nicely as possible to piss off and he got NASTY and called us little whores etc, charming! In the end I deleted him from my msn and got a new email, deleted my NZ dating account and called Vodafone and had him blocked from calling me. Now I have a new number anyway. he was such a freak.
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Posted: 28 February 2008 at 3:05pm |
Eww, that's creepy  Hope it gets sorted soon!!
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mummy_becks
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Posted: 28 February 2008 at 3:33pm |
Scary that is not nice, hopefully your boss can sort it out.
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I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!
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Rachael21
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Posted: 28 February 2008 at 4:00pm |
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eek scary
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Posted: 28 February 2008 at 4:18pm |
did he add you as a friend on FB? Or is there a way of telling that he looked at your profile? (panicking here about profiles I may have looked up to be nosey but didnt want to be friends - ex's etc . Would hate them to know)
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almostthere
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Posted: 28 February 2008 at 5:00pm |
OK so far what i can tell happened was this:
I sent him the form
He used my first name to search for me in FB.
Because I have a private page, he couldnt access my FC profile, but he could see me through a friend who had me tagged in one of her pictures and kinda get into my profile that way, as myu frined doesnt have a private profile....
Its ok, i now have security etc for walking to my car, but it shows you jsut how easy it can be to find people!!! 
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Posted: 28 February 2008 at 6:20pm |
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I have everything set to private that I can on Facebook.
It's freaky that he would go to those lengths!
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Posted: 28 February 2008 at 10:21pm |
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Eeeek. Scary.
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Posted: 28 February 2008 at 10:35pm |
Wow that is freaky
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Posted: 28 February 2008 at 11:03pm |
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scary isn't it - my dh is always going on about anyone anywhere can be found on the net...
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Posted: 29 February 2008 at 6:35am |
Scary
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Posted: 29 February 2008 at 8:56am |
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That is scary - Im confused how did you know he looked you up on Facebook did he say?
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Posted: 29 February 2008 at 8:57am |
Thats so freaky
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almostthere
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Posted: 29 February 2008 at 10:07am |
Yea, he actually told me he looked me up and started quoting things from it.. It was just scary cos nnow he knows what i look like, where i work.. etc
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IVFGirl1111
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Posted: 29 February 2008 at 10:57am |
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:O He actually TOLD you he looked you up?! Nutter!
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Posted: 29 February 2008 at 12:21pm |
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OMG hope you get it sorted soon how scary.
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almostthere
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Posted: 29 February 2008 at 1:34pm |
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Is fine now :) we had our security company come in, and they are off to visit this guy.. I have brought down my face book account ( i didnt need it anyway..) its just scary what info people can off those types of websitea about you!!
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Posted: 01 March 2008 at 3:50pm |
I had some random weirdo start texting me one day and at first i thought he had just guessed my number and then started texting but he knew my name!! and that i had an 8 month old! (Bailey was 8 months at the time) and he would text me every few hours EVEN the NIGHT!!!  he told me his name and a few other details and keep trying to strike up conversations but i only answered 2 times to tell him to Feck off!! and i also rung it off my private phone (blocked number) to see who would answer and it was a creepy guy who answered! so anyway i rung vodafone after 3 complaints and they still fart assed around! then this guy started sending me creepy texts like "why arnt you talking to me!!? i know your not busy right now!" and one that i remembered cleary " I WILL get you and cleanse my heart with your blood"!! thats when i rung the cops and have never heard from this guy again!
BTW - i didnt have the net back then so i had no forum accounts, bebo accounts not even hotmail! so it never came from the net!
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mummy_becks
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Posted: 01 March 2008 at 7:48pm |
OMG Amber freaky.
Good to hear that it is all sorted now, makes me wonder if I need to make my bebo private.
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I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!
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