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   Kazzle  
   
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     Topic: I am such a bad mum     Posted: 05 March 2007 at 5:01pm | 
 
 
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     Posted: 05 March 2007 at 5:36pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   You are not a bad mum!!!  They should have told you everything, it is not your fault.  I actually can't believe they did not tell you not to give her certain foods, that is really bad on their behalf.  Don't feel you are a bad mum because you are a terrific mum!!
 
Chin up honey, don't feel bad.  Lots of        coming your way.
     
   
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     Posted: 05 March 2007 at 5:46pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   Your a terrific mum Kazzle! They should of told you, I can't believe they didn't. But at least you now know and things will get better. 
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     Posted: 05 March 2007 at 5:50pm | 
 
 
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   At least you know now. And I would blame them. They should have told you this. 
    
   
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     Posted: 05 March 2007 at 6:28pm | 
 
 
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   Kazzle, you are not a bad mum, no one had told you that it was making her sick so you were only doing what you thought was right.
    
   
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     I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!
     
   
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     Posted: 05 March 2007 at 6:39pm | 
 
 
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   What everyone else said! How frustrating, they definitely should have made that clear to you at the time.
    
   
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     Posted: 05 March 2007 at 6:48pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   Aw Kaz! Each one of us would have done the same thing!! So don't think you are a bad mum at all! You are fab    
Hope Rhiannon feels better soon and just focus on the fact that you did find out what was wrong and can now do something to make it better    
    
   
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     Posted: 05 March 2007 at 6:53pm | 
 
 
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   awww thanks guys....im feeling better now...when i next see my wellchild provider i will be asking why i wasnt told.
 
 so apart from teh milk issue...rhiannon is happy and eating and drinking well (water at least)
    
   
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     Posted: 05 March 2007 at 8:03pm | 
 
 
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   Big hugs Kazz.  Gosh, if I listed all the shocking things I've done to my kids  BY ACCIDENT, CYPS would be around.  Only recently I found out that you shouldn't give weetbix to babies - Taine had it since six months old - so it's more luck than anything that THAT didn't make him sick.
    
   
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     Posted: 05 March 2007 at 9:03pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   you are in no way a bad mum i hate when professioals dont tell you the hole stroey aggrrhhhhhhh go easy on your self hun   
    
   
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