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     Topic: Todays my due date...     Posted: 01 March 2010 at 9:44am | 
 
 
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     Posted: 01 March 2010 at 10:24am | 
 
 
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     Posted: 01 March 2010 at 10:27am | 
 
 
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   When a baby arrives,
 be it for a day, a month, a year or more,
 or perhaps only a sweet flickering moment-
 the fragile spark of a tender soul
 the secret swell of a new pregnancy
 the goldfish flutter known to only you-
 you are unmistakeningly changed...
 the tiny footprints left behind on your heart
 bespeak your name as Mother.
 
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     Posted: 01 March 2010 at 12:52pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   I wish I could say something that would help, but I know nothing really does.  Just try not to be too hard on yourself for being upset. 
Oh god Liz - I was already feeling Stef's pain, and that just made me weep (lovely though). 
  
    
   
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     Posted: 01 March 2010 at 1:09pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
        Thinking of you today.
     
   
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     Posted: 01 March 2010 at 3:04pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   Oh no liz, I'm just bawling my eyes out.
 
In a weird act of 'celebration' for not having a baby I went out and bought myself  this book which I have been lusting after FOR MONTHS.
 It has the most beautiful layer cakes ever.
 Look: (WARNING AVERT YOUR EYES IF HUNGRY)
  strawberry shortcake,  Chocolate Cake with Peanut Butter Frosting.  Banana Cake with Praline Filling a  Pistachio petit-four
The only problem is that BF and I are on weight loss mission at the moment and nobody is having a birthday so I will just have to oggle the recipies until I have an excuse to bake a layer cake.
 Not as good as a baby but for a cake-making nerd like me it put a smile on my dial. 
     
   
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     Posted: 01 March 2010 at 3:34pm | 
 
 
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     Mum to two amazing boys!
     
   
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     Posted: 01 March 2010 at 4:36pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
     from me too...
     
   
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     Posted: 01 March 2010 at 5:30pm | 
 
 
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   Oh those cakes look devine!! I like the look of the pistachio one, mmmmmm.  I'm so glad that you could do something for you - you really deserve it.
 
 That poem was one that meant alot to me when I had my mc.... it made me feel that it was ok to grieve.  It's my due date tomorrow.  Incidentally it's also one month til my due date with this baby - so I think it will be a bitter sweet day.
    
   
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     Posted: 01 March 2010 at 8:36pm | 
 
 
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     Posted: 02 March 2010 at 5:06pm | 
 
 
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   Excellent to get yourself a treat! I am sorry for this never ending loss stef. Hugs. And I hope you find an excuse for a lavish cake soon!
    
   
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