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   MrsMojo  
   
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     Posted: 11 April 2008 at 8:11am | 
 
 
  
   
   
   
  caitlynsmygirl wrote:
  Incidentally a good friend of mine, her parents recently came into a rather large sum of money, (round 4 million to be exact) they arent giving any to my friend and her sister tho, and no, they dont get any when the parents die either...parents dont believe in inheritence....hmmmm wonder what others views on that are (the inheritence thing) ? |   
We try and help our family and friends as much as we can, when we don't have money we give them our time.  
 If DH and I won a whole heap of cash we'd share it around (it would need to be a lot of cash though as I'm 1 of 6 and DH is 1 of 8 plus we have several nieces and nephews).
 We want to make sure Michaela is set up with money for education etc and gets something when we die so I guess the short answer is that I do believe in inheritance.
     
   
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     Posted: 11 April 2008 at 8:51am | 
 
 
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   I would have stopped at 1 too Jenna!  Is that terrible?  I love Lily with all my heart but...
    
   
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     Posted: 11 April 2008 at 9:16am | 
 
 
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   Ithink we would go for three or four but both of us would like an even number, I was one of four and usually it was great, we sort of had 2 teams! Dh was one of 2 and I think would have like to b e in a bigger family.  
    
   
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     Posted: 11 April 2008 at 9:37am | 
 
 
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   I always thought 4 but now that I'm here with a terrible two year old I don't think I could put myself through this 3 more times. Also my babies don't sleep and no amount of money is going to fix that.
 
 Ask me in 10 years time when I have about forgotten terrible twos and sleepless nights.
    
   
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     Posted: 11 April 2008 at 12:18pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   We have 4 together, but I would like one more.. another boy!! Don't know why I want a boy.. I guess it'll be because I've had a girl, now I want the other end of the scale   
We would live in a house, in the country where the kids can catch a bus to the nearest schools..we'd have a HUGE amount of acreage so I can have lots of animals etc and maybe run a business with DF from home.. 
 We'd too would have a Ford Territory for our family wagon
     
   
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     Posted: 11 April 2008 at 6:08pm | 
 
 
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   One.
 Its not money stopping us having more, its cause I'm an old bag.
    
   
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     Posted: 11 April 2008 at 6:24pm | 
 
 
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   I would stick at one.  It is what we wanted and what we still want.  It isn't money stopping us having more, just choice.
    
   
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     Posted: 11 April 2008 at 7:56pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
     Haha Ana- evil mothers we are!
     
   
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     Posted: 12 April 2008 at 12:19pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
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     Posted: 12 April 2008 at 6:02pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   5 I think, depends on if we could have that many if not adopt to make 5 or 6    
    
   
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     Posted: 12 April 2008 at 9:30pm | 
 
 
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   I plan on having 3 and would probably keep it at that maybe stretch it to four.
    
   
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