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Aw Toni
I hope you are coping better today chicky.
I think its so mean that you are left to it all on your own... if I were you I would REFUSE to milk friggen cows my entire pregnancy!! You are a strong woman, I will give you that... but come on sweets, this has got to stop somewhere. If he is carrying on like this all the time, no excuse. Put your foot down darling!!
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Hi all. Well today has been a better day. This morning Spencer actually brought Alex in to me at 5am because he woke up. So I was able to give him cuddles & fall back asleep. Feeling alot better after a good sleep.
Also we went out with Spencer on the tractor for about 1/2 an hour for some fresh air. I wish I had got a pic of Alex wearing a huge pair of earmuffs on the tractor! Too cute
I'm not worried about milking cows, maybe I'm mental but I enjoy it most of the time. When I was pregnant with Alex I milked everyday right up until my due date so its been weird only milking once every couple of weeks.

I sat down with Spencer last night after Alex was in bed & had a good chat. He reckons I just seem to cope so well it never really occurred to him I need help and even when I asked for help he didn't think it was such a big deal. I guess its really my own fault for letting it be so easy for him....He made the point that he only really gets 3 days off a month which he spends with me so when he goes for rides on weekends after work its "his" time.......I just about bit his head off at that though coz where is my time off??????? Usually if I go out its with Alex in tow. He wants to go to Oz for 4 days at the end of this month to see his best mate, and I'm freaking out about it. Moneywise its a little bit tight (his fault for spending so much money on his bike!) and it will be 4 weeks before I'm due or 2 weeks if I have an elective C/S. Maybe not such a big deal but since anyone I can call if something happens is a good 2 hours away it makes me a little nervous.

Sorry I'm really good at the novels lately, nothing really seems sorted & I'm not sure how to make a compromise.
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In all honesty, Toni, I'm not really sure you're the one who needs to compromise! I really get the impression Spencer is being just a little selfish, and he really needs to consider how his wants are impacting on your needs.

Just my take... I guess you can't do more than you already are to try to make him understand. Ugh! Men!
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Yes MEN!!!! Sometimes I reckon the only good thing is the night time cuddles
Hey Janine, I would be keen to catch up, if your going to be in Matamata You can email me at my username @ xtra. Lol I hope that makes sense? Just no fat jokes LOL!!! I get heaps of those at home and at the bosses place!
Even one of the other workers bought me a t-shirt saying "does my belly look big in this?". I was so not impressed with him but it was a bit of a laugh.
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Kewl - will email you some time by the weekend then - once we have moved, and i have talked to my sister.. cos then i will know if she's planned anything - (as far as i know they are both milking the whole time we are there).

hhhm as far as night time cuddles are concerned - do you actually get them... i don't. mike doesn't like to cuddle me cos i usually tell him to go away after a bit cos i feel a bit suffocated, and then aparently, he has to roll over to his "cold" side of the bed.... oh poor him, so i don't get any cuddles at all. and well - he's a bit too bony to cuddle if i tried cuddling him. sometimes i think he needs more fat and padding.
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