for now im putting it on the back burne bcos i guess its not sooooooooo bad and my boys are my main priority so it feels wrong to uproot them over this...it means heaps to me but im going to make sure DH feels the pinch from me for a while!!!..
sorry i cant mention what it is but i will say just to put it to rest that - he did NOT cheat on me, nothing like that ...
joshierocks - hehe no he doesnt work for you

we are 4 hours away from you hehe, i rung the office lady last night and gave her an ear full (this is a common occurance for her - forgeting to pay people randomly!

)...so anyway miraculously his wage was in there this morning! but im making his boss pay for the $60 worth of bank fees we got because ALL of our payements went out of his account with not enough money to cover!!