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i did used to enjoy it. it changed for me after i had jade though, somehow. i think for me i just have to get past stupid issues within myself. for a while i hated my body soo much and did have it in my head that how could anyone love me, which i feel pretty stink for as its only an image and hubby loves me regardless of how i look. AND i did go through depression which added to the lack of interest too, as well as sleepless nights (4 whole years of them) and especially with breast feeding I JUST WANT MY BODY BACK FOR ME! lol, made me not want to be touched cause i felt like it wasnt mine anymore.
k... enough of that!!! im trying to put everything behind me now, i love my hubby and he loves me, it "should" be natural.... i know it will come back one day and sometimes its not as if its not there but i try to ignore the feelings and push them away... WHY?!
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The thing is, for MOST guys sex is physical first and emotional second - the physical connection of sex gives them an emotional connection to their partner. For MOST women, its the other way around: an emotional connection to their partner makes them want the physical connection of sex.

What I have found helps to slowly regain that libido is to think about it during the day... think about your man and about whatever your favourite feature of him is... remember a past "encounter" that you really enjoyed... imagine recreating those moments... DON'T tell your man what you are doing - you'll put too much pressure on yourself to follow through - but rather do your best to initate a little fun at whatever point in the day seems to work best for you... and remember: the more us women get, the more we want (gee, sounds like chocolate!)
Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys
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oh Becca always full of good advice you rock.
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Oh and Jess thank's for starting this thread it has certainly helped me relise I am not the only one.
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Ok so I missed this thread and must admit that my hubby isnt getting much either.

At first we were too tired and too busy and recently we have been having some problems....so I was totally off.

I must admit tho that I dont want it as much as I use too pre pregnancy and in pregnancy!!

Hubby is really good about it tho....so I think I dont even think about it!

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