nah, its the guys stuff that helps - and the closer to your cervix you can put it the better - so try it on your knees, that seems to be best for what is required (hmmm how to say that is the deepest while being most comfortable for that stage of pregnancy )
Lyla - mum to
Xanthe - my big 4 year old and
Jordis - 1 year old
Just on the whole orgasim thing, did anyone see Dr Phil the other day? there was a lady who was married for 6 years and had only just had an orgasim and it turned her into a sex maniac, she wanted it all the time, I thought that was pretty funny but how could you be married and go so long without having one?
I've heard of women who have gone 17 years or so (and have kids) before they have their first orgasm... for alot of women who don't orgasm it's a "letting go of control" problem - they can't relax that last little bit and surrender to their bodies because that means that they are not in complete control of the situation. Other women have a "sex is dirty and wrong" misconception and don't want to enjoy it... or there's always Nat's reason: Maybe their husband just isn't very good!
Seems like the way I am feelign at the moment is pretty normal then - I sort of want to do it sometimes but I just dont ever seem to have the energy to say "lets go for it" - I guess that means I dont want it as much as I just want to lie on the couch LOL!
Plus i feel VERY huge and unsexy...
Orgasms are strange when you are pregnant. Its like your whole tummy has one!! He he
I am quite enjoying the whole sex thing with Mark this pregnancy whenever we can ...well try too anyway as with my ex husband we never did anything the whole time. Made me feel yuck!
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