Thanks Emz
I dont think its his ears...he is usually pretty cheery at nappy change time, and he will play on the floor quite happily "most" times, but he will start to grizzle, and then he will just flat out have a major tanty, and he will look at me and pull little sad faces and then he will have another scream and it goes on and on.
Ive checked his nappy, Ive made sure he isnt hungry or thirsty Ive given him different toys, put him in his exersaucer, but sometimes nothing will help.
Maybe it has something to do with his teething.....he IS quite clingy at the moment and only seems to want me when he is upset, which is lovely biut so damn tiring

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I will try some pamol next time, and I have just remembered I have this calming spray for babies, might try that. if that fails, then time out in his cot is the next step, at least he is safe there and i can clear my head a bit lol