Author |
Topic Search Topic Options
|
Kazzle
Senior Member
Joined: 01 January 1900
Location: Porirua
Points: 3830
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Topic: i swore to myself that i wouldnt do this Posted: 18 March 2008 at 9:00am |
I swore that i wouldnt worry over being pregnant again, but i woke up with major cramping this morning, and i was 100% certain i had started bleeding as i felt like i had flooded everywhere. BUT i was 100% wrong...
Arrrghhh so the cramping moves from my right hand side (feels more like stretching) to at the moment had a sharp stabbing pain in my belly button.
I dont want to stress, i dont want to worry, but i dont think im going to be able not too...
|
|
 |
Sponsored Links
|
|
 |
peanut butter
Senior Member
Joined: 20 February 2007
Points: 8044
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 9:02am |
Oh Kaz!!! Who can not worry? I havent had any bad experiences and I am still worrying non stop. Did you have trouble conceiving Rhiannon? Or has it all been since then?
|
 |
peanut butter
Senior Member
Joined: 20 February 2007
Points: 8044
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 9:03am |
And I am constantly checking for bleeding too as it feels like stuff is gushing out all the time
|
 |
susieq
Senior Member
Joined: 01 January 1900
Location: Howick/Auckland
Points: 3771
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 9:09am |
Stick babies stick
|
 |
susieq
Senior Member
Joined: 01 January 1900
Location: Howick/Auckland
Points: 3771
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 9:10am |
Hope everything goes well for both of you kazzle and nzpiper sticky vibes from me
|
 |
caraMel
Senior Member
Joined: 01 January 1900
Points: 5342
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 9:18am |
 Kaz, don't be hard on yourself for worrying.
We all do it and after what you've had to go through it would be almost impossible for you not to.
All you can do is try to stay positive hun, tell yourself that cramping can be normal in early pregnancy (I went to the Dr twice about it when I was 4 & 5 weeks with Benjy because it was so sore) and go easy on yourself.
Rescue remedy can be really helpful for stress and worry too, if you find it is getting too much for you.
I've got my fingers crossed tight for you Kazzle, sending you and your wee bean lots of love and prayers xx
|
Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and:
|
 |
jack_&_charli
Senior Member
Joined: 01 January 1900
Location: christchurch
Points: 7155
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 9:23am |
kaz it's only natural for you to worry. your pains sound exactly like i had with charli at the start. try not to worry (yeah i no!  )
|
|
 |
Snickerdoodle
Senior Member
Joined: 15 May 2007
Location: Sunny Tauranga
Points: 2305
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 9:35am |
Hopefully these pains are the bean burrowing in nice and cosy for a long stay
Sticky vibes for you!!
|
|
 |
Bizzy
Senior Member
Joined: 01 January 1900
Location: New Zealand
Points: 10974
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 9:40am |
oh so normal... i remember waking up or going to get up and thinking i was going to find a puddle of blood...and no matter how much i tried to tell myself it was all going to be all right or that i could handle whatever happened it drove me nuts. the second guessing, the innumerable toilet stops "just in case", pressng my boobs, "do i feel sick still?", and no matter what you do you cant stop yourself.
Just know that you are not alone, and you are perfectly normal.
|
|
 |
ElfsMum
Senior Member
Joined: 04 June 2007
Location: Christchurch
Points: 11702
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 9:54am |
i agree with bizzy..i was the same..all the way till he was born after the mc.
|
Mum to two amazing boys!
|
 |
Kazzle
Senior Member
Joined: 01 January 1900
Location: Porirua
Points: 3830
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 10:02am |
Bizzy wrote:
oh so normal... i remember waking up or going to get up and thinking i was going to find a puddle of blood...and no matter how much i tried to tell myself it was all going to be all right or that i could handle whatever happened it drove me nuts. the second guessing, the innumerable toilet stops "just in case", pressng my boobs, "do i feel sick still?", and no matter what you do you cant stop yourself.
Just know that you are not alone, and you are perfectly normal. |
Snap i am doing all of that, oh and at the moment sitting here in tears, cos miss rhiannon has lost my house/car keys and i want/need to go out....am im wondering how the hell a toddler loses keys when this house is so clean its amazing (as its just gone on the market)
|
|
 |
peanut butter
Senior Member
Joined: 20 February 2007
Points: 8044
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 10:14am |
Glad you explained that Kaz as I was about to ask how you have a spotless house with a toddler
|
 |
The_Stuarts
Senior Member
Joined: 01 January 1900
Location: Wellington
Points: 509
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 10:15am |
Kaz I have never mc but I have a very strong family history (between my two sisters, my mum and my aunty they have had 7 mc). I spent my entire pregnancy (especially the first few months) worrying. It seems we start worrying about our babies from the minute they're concieved and right through their childhood/adolescence/adulthood too, we just need to get used to it.
The cramping pains sound just like early pregnancy to me. Your uterus is stretching to make a nice comfortable home for your sticky little bean.
|
|
 |
meow
Senior Member
Joined: 01 January 1900
Points: 2417
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 10:55am |
The pains are so common in early pregnancy, and with this pregnancy I had convinced myself it was another m/c as I had bleeding early on.
Try to think positively, it's hard - but it does help.
|
|
 |
nicolaann
Senior Member
Joined: 01 January 1900
Location: Wanganui
Points: 2597
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 11:21am |
Awwww..... it's so hard not to worry! Just try to be positive! Everything is going to be fine!!! And I agree, rescue remedy is great!!
|
Nicky, Mum to Alex (5) & Sophie (3)
|
 |
EmDee
Senior Member
Joined: 01 January 1900
Location: Waikato
Points: 4407
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 1:13pm |
|
DS 8 DD 6 DS 4 DD 2
|
 |
Shezamumof3
Senior Member
Joined: 14 April 2007
Points: 10096
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 3:06pm |
|
|
 |
Maya
Senior Member
Joined: 16 September 2003
Location: Sydney
Points: 23297
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 6:59pm |
Yep, I still check my undies every bathroom stop too, I'm figuring I probably will until the day I give birth, it's just what us women do, esp with the added stress of a m/c or two.
|
 Maya Grace (28/02/03)
 (02/01/06)
  The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
 Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
 Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
|
 |
cuppatea
Senior Member
Joined: 05 February 2007
Points: 7798
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 7:04pm |
|
|
 |
Kels
Senior Member
Joined: 01 January 1900
Location: Lower Hutt
Points: 11520
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: 18 March 2008 at 7:59pm |
Sending you loads of super glue to stick that little bubba!!
|
Busy mum to Miss 15yrs, Miss 10yrs and Master 4yrs
|
 |