Thankyou all....my partner is due in late September (we found out a few weeks ago.....believe it or not neither of us picked up on some of the less obvious changes until then

) so yes it's rather far in that I am seeking advice and help. Thankyou for the suggestion to go to Queen Mary - we have a GP appointment on Thursday so will discuss things with her too, and then see Queen Mary to be under their care which seems like it would be the best thing this far on in proceedings. However, my partner was away at the time she found out and has only just returned home so I am wanting to do all I possibly can to support her in this and get her engaged with all the help she needs, which is clearly beyond what I can provide! These are VERY exciting times......so thankyou to all who posted replies - much appreciated
Robert