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  | clover   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Topic: Valentines for her ($20) Posted: 11 February 2010 at 10:12am
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   A colleague has asked me for valentines ideas for his partner, but they've got a $20 limit.  I am seriously stumped - any ideas?
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  | GuestGuest   Senior Member
 
   
 
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 11 February 2010 at 10:36am | 
 
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   Bottle of wine and a card? I would be into that    | 
 
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  | lilfatty   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 11 February 2010 at 11:08am | 
 
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   SD usually writes me a poem, he spends quite a lot of time on them, I have them in a scrapbook, although the one he gave me for our first anniversary is framed and hanging in our bedroom.
 Another thing he could do is make up gift vouchers ...
 
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  | clover   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 11 February 2010 at 11:18am | 
 
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   Lilfatty that is so sweet!  I don't know if he is any good at poems but I'll certainly suggest it.
 The wine one is a good idea as well, surely you could get a nice bottle for $20?
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  | jazzy   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 11 February 2010 at 11:38am | 
 
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   He could do heaps for $20, it all depends on how imaginative he is...
 cook dinner
 breakfast in bed
 single red rose
 chocolate
 card
 fish n chips or picnic at beach or somewhere
 pamper day for her- bath bomb, mag, chocolate bar, wine
 
 You don't need to spend a lot of money on someone to show you love them.
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  | clover   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 11 February 2010 at 11:58am | 
 
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   I keep saying that he doesn't have to buy something fantastic.  I think she hated the birthday present he got her so is trying to make up for it.
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  | jazzy   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   hmmm sounds like she will not be happy with anything cheap or homemade & from the heart.
 He could buy a charm for a bracelet he will get for her next b'day or xmas. Or lay-by something & pay it off, & give her a card & the date it will be payed off.
 But to be honest I would not bother if someone is more interested in big $$$ gifts than the reason it is for it, they will never be satisfied. Those type of relationships are hard to maintain without serious debt.    | 
 
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  | kiwikid   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   Oooh Jazzy just cos she didnt like her birthday present doesnt mean she wouldnt be happy with homemade from the heart - he might have gotten her a pair of kitchen sizzors (sp) like my Dad got my Mum one year... suffice to say she wasnt impressed LOL
 Lots of nice suggestions from the others here, I'm sure if he really thinks about the things she likes that one of those options will stand out as the right one.
 
 What about a picnic, I'd love it if my DH brought a load of goodies and took me somewhere lovely with a blanket / basket etc - where he did all the thought and planning etc
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  | Bizzy   Senior Member
 
   
 
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   you could get a couple of botles of wine for $20.  i like belgian chocolates myself...  for that much i could get wine and chocs! 
 lilfatty - how sweet of your husband!    and how equally sweet of you to keep them all.  My mother had kept all of the letters that dad wrote her when he was away when they first got married....even after they separated!
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  | clover   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   great ideas ladies, I've passed them on.  Apparently she does like homemade type stuff and had brought her some kitchen stuff for her birthday which is why she was less than impressed!
 I think he is going to try and write something and create a bit of a homemade 'pamper hamper' for her.
 
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  | jazzy   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   ha ha kitchen stuff for her birthday, he has a lot to learn   | 
 
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  | jazzy   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   I still think a picnic would be lovey.
 LF poems are sweet. My DH wrote me heap of love letters that I keep in a box, that was before we were married   now he sends texts, ha ha, technology eh?    
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  | jazzy   Senior Member
 
   
   
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|  kiwikid wrote: 
 Oooh Jazzy just cos she didnt like her birthday present doesnt mean she wouldnt be happy with homemade from the heart - he might have gotten her a pair of kitchen sizzors (sp) like my Dad got my Mum one year... suffice to say she wasnt impressed LOL
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 Can't say I would be too impressed either, unless they were electric, ha ha
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  | caliandjack   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 11 February 2010 at 1:26pm | 
 
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   We ususally do stuff for Valentine's Day - buy a nice card then treat her to what it is that she likes, I'm making Dh chocolate cup cakes, and going to the movies.Nice smellies are always lovely, or a nice back massage, he could offer to make her dinner.
 
 I love kitchen stuff, Dh scored big brownie points when he brought me a scanpan for christmas - esp after his workmates hassled him about it.
 
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  | rachndean   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 11 February 2010 at 1:33pm | 
 
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   lilfatty that is so incredibly romantic!!!
 A picnic on the beach is a lovely one!!
 Its a little over $20, but i found this
earings I would be pretty stoked.........   | 
 
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  | kellie   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 11 February 2010 at 1:41pm | 
 
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   I like jazzys pamper pack idea.
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  | clover   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 11 February 2010 at 1:55pm | 
 
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   Awseome ideas ladies!!  I personally would also be thrilled with stuff for the kitchen, but I love cooking.  Evidently she does not    | 
 
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