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...that is just plain wrong.....this kinda thing also makes me

I would slap both of them!!

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It's a hard one...
But my personal opinion (after a fairly sh*tty year of people making judgements about me)...is that you can't judge someone until you've walked (more than!) a mile in their shoes. Things often look different from the 'outside' - even if you're closely involved. No one *really* knows the reality of someone else’s life.
I however do not condone affairs, cannot imagine cheating on my DH or him cheating on me - but I've learnt (the hard way) to never say never...
Hope this makes sense....
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Its a hard situation, I met my partner while he was engaged to someone else we worked together and I was YOUNG, I didnt know he had a partner and before I knew it I was head over heels by the time I found out about the other woman I was too caught up so he left his gf for me (she was a psyco though and pulled out the whole im pregnant card when he left NOT) but anyway I guess you cant help who you fall for and every situation is different. I do agree that if he knows she is married, it is kind of nasty but its his life so his problem I guess she wont leave her hubby so he will be left hearbroken.

Things happen for a reason and the wife obviously isnt happy. Its a really really sad situation that I wouldnt wish upon anybody and dearly hope it never happens to me.


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I agree with you Stacey

I have been cheated on, I was with this guy for 5 years and he cheated on me. Its the most horrible feeling in the world.

I think that he should think about how her husband would feel.

Its not right, I think the women and your friend are equally in the wrong. If your not happy in a relationship, end it the right way.

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They are both as stupid as each other. In the end they will both wake up and realise that they can't get it on anymore (sounds like she's the player in this fling too) and then there will be the reality check about the fact that they still have to continue working together and then there will be the discussion about the fact that someone has to leave..

Your friend is the one that is losing out. If she's getting it from him, no doubt she is getting it from her husband too, and I wouldn't be all that surprised if the husband already has his suspicions.

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Sounds like a very foolish thing to do. What if the wife split up with her husband for the new fling, months down the track he'll be wondering if he's gonna be dumped for a new bloke too!
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I agree with you Stacey, morally if he knows she is married then he is just as bad as her.
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