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jazzy View Drop Down
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I would tell him he is more than welcome to came & get everything & tell him is will be ready for pick up so he might want to be on time in case it rains.

Also advise him that the IRD will sort out child support payments & that way he can make a clean break from you & he wont get behind in payments.....
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Points: 2244 		Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote mamanee Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 10 November 2009 at 1:00pm
I don't think the man has paid ANY child support, well as far as I know anyway.

A while ago he was expecting a huge tax rebate and was really excited about it only for them to take every cent of it towards child support back payments.   Good job I thought!

I'm waiting for the day he owes them thousands and thousands of dollars in child support payments because he hasn't paid and it really stings him!
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ha ha about the child support, now he is in the system he will be paying, if you are on a benefit you wont see it, but if you are not then get IRD to sort it out as they will take it from him & give it to you, so you won't miss out, get him where it hurts I say...right in the wallet...one way to get a new fridge etc, lol
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i say dump it all on the footpath and tell him if he doesnt pick it up by 10am that day then itl be gone , i went thru all of this too it sux but the best thing was that once it was gone there is NO reason for him to contact you again other than about your son and youl probably feel alot better knowing that you dont have his stuff, i know i did i went to dtr and rented some stuff for a while till i could sort it myself


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DS 11mths
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I agree with everything the others said. Definitely leave it all outside and DONT be there when he collects it. DO take photos and document document document!! Getting him to sign he has collected it would be good too as that way he cant come up with any curve balls later on (when his new girlfriend has wisened up and kicked him to the curb).

I havent been in this situation but I have just been through a crappy tenanting situation and wish to god I had taken PHOTOS!!!

It would be even better if you could drop all the stuff off at a neutral location...totally worth the hireage of a trailer...that way you can have your house to yourself.

Wash your hands of the bastard......just a bummer you couldnt have set fire to it all....that would probably feel good, I imagine
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I don't have much to add , the other ladies have said it already , but I do think that Sam , (and Jamie ) should be very proud of their mum , you're worth a zillion of your ex , and your kids are lucky to have you


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