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nikkitheknitter 
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 8:37am |
OK OK... another guy story.
This one is Tobin. A pierced, tattoed, metal loving man (Annie would love him  ). I went out with him when I was in Dunedin but our little romance was cut short because of the ridiculous amount of gossip at our work.... and Tobin being quite a private guy.
Anyway, I emailed him a few months ago (after 3 years! haha) and met up with him before new year in Christchurch. It was cool, we had pizza. Watched Scooby Doo  and then he went home. Then I started getting lots of text messages from him... I decided he was Love of My Live Version 3 (Yes, taking the piss out of the fact that I have a new love every 5 minutes.  )
But Tobin was moving to Australia... so it didn't matter if he was briefly Love of My Life... until last night.
Now he has changed his mind about travelling around the world and is going to come back the end of March to see me. I haven't ascertained whether he means come back and stay, or come back for a visit. But eeeeeeek!!! I couldn't sleep last night! I wasn't sure it was a great idea... but then Mum said to take a damn risk for once. (The last Love of My Life (aka Ross) was never going to happen... it was a great distraction from school but he's away with the bloody fairies - moreso than me  )
So yeah... wonder what's going to happen with this one! Difference from the last two LoMLs is that he is actually a reeeeeeeally nice guy. (That was my prob when we had our Dunedin thing... he was too "serious" for me! In my party fuelled promiscuous days!)
Right. Novel over. Just had to tell someone(s) 
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fattartsrock
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 8:47am |
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Choice! Go Nikki! I love your vicarious living posts!
Go for it!!
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 9:00am |
I say go for it too!! What's the worst that can happen!?
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 9:12am |
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Like Annie...I love these posts!! He he he ha ha
I say go for it too...but the question is if he is still the same guy, how serious have you become??
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 9:44am |
Go Nikki! Sad reflection on the state of my life that I get so much entertainment from yours but I agree with your Mum...
CARPE DIEM!
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 11:19am |
Yip I also love these posts I agree with everyone else GO FOR IT 
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 12:55pm |
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 1:28pm |
I just enjoy having a real life soap opera play out in front of me! So much better than tv! Nikki, we love you really!
I say give it a shot... what have you got to loose?
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 1:31pm |
he he becca, was "loose" a freudian slip?
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 2:17pm |
Shut up Annie
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 2:28pm |
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Yeah id say go for it too! Over the years alot has probably changed and you have probably become more serious. I think you may as well, or you spend the rest of your life thinking "what if"
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 2:38pm |
Uhuh.. I already had for the previous 3 years! He was always my "Oh, it could have been so cool" regret. (Even tho he ditched me after our first date. Silly man.) He said he thought about me heaps after I left Dunedin. *muhahaha*
Anyway Roksana, to answer your question about being serious... yes, I'm HEAPS more serious (as in not just out drinking and sleeping around any more ) - that was the issue. He wasn't into sleeping round... that freaked me out because that's all I really had. (Geez - go figure how I got pregnant!) So yeah, it suits me now, and obviously he's still got that committment thing going down. 
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 2:47pm |
Well then...what are you waiting for??
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 2:49pm |
The approval of the OB ladies
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 2:57pm |
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 3:00pm |
I here with approve you to follow thru...LOL
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 3:01pm |
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Don't you worry - I am in regular text contact. Especially because he is currently in Wairoa and has nothing better to do than send me a million texts a day! haha
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 3:12pm |
Approval granted!
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 4:48pm |
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Yeah go for it. your young, still have a plenty of life left in you so what have you got to lose. Besides if you dont then we wont have any exciting updates to dream over in our boring married housewife lives.
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 4:59pm |
who are you calling boring.....LOL
Nah Robyn is right...we do have boring lives!! 
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Vicarious living version 3
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