Would you leave.....

if you found out your husband/partner was a tranny?

I watched that doco last night and it got me thinking. One of the couples had been married 7 years before he came out to his wife and she stayed with him and his female self she saw as her sister and his male self as her husband. She was only intimate with his male side but some of the other couples were more open than that.

I've thought about it and for me it wouldn't be a deal breaker, I would be a little annoyed that it had been hidden for so long, and probably weirded out for a while but I think that we could get over it and accept it.

What about you?

I think it would take a bit of time to accept it, just cause it was hidden etc but I think I would end up being ok with it

I was watching that too ... I dont think I would have a problem as he would still be the man I love and my best friend.

I did tell DH he wouldnt make a very attractive woman though!

I think I would struggle if my DH had kept it a secret for so long ... ie through 6 years of dating/living together/marriage. I would hope that he would have told me anything like that BEFORE we walked up the aisle

The actual tranny/dressing up as a female part, well I don't think it would bother me hugely if he was open with me about it, rather than keeping it a secret.

pepsi wrote: DH asked me the same thing last night when we were watching that doco, would I leave if I found out he was a tranny?.. "I said hell yes..there are already too many annoying things about you and that would be the last straw!" haha

lol.

My Dh doesn't have the legs to be a woman, he also rarely shaves so would be a bearded lady

The secret keeping thing is a biggy but after watching last night I did understand why the guy hadn't said anything as he thought he could stop doing it once in a relationship etc and then as time goes on it gets harder and harder. He only owned up when she threatened to leave cos she thought he was having an affair. The other couples the women knew before entering the relationship so that's a different kettle of fish.

OMG yes! too weird. I like to think I am pretty open minded, but the thought of Willie in womens clothing...

Haha that made me crack up!

Um yeah I would leave- I like having firm roles within a relationship, me feminine, him masculine, end of.

pepsi wrote: DH asked me the same thing last night when we were watching that doco, would I leave if I found out he was a tranny?.. "I said hell yes..there are already too many annoying things about you and that would be the last straw!" haha

ROFLMAO!!!!

Well I have seen photos of my husband dressed in drag (he won a scooter and a case of V for it), but that was a one off.

i watched that last night too....i don't know if i would stay with DH if he 'came out' as a tranny or not..........it's one of those 'i don't know how i'd react until i was there' moments