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Snappy 
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 9:59am |
Sorry if this is a bit TMI.
I just really want to know how many times a week (or even a month) is the norm for people? You obviously dont have to answer your own personal record keeping per week, but I just want to see everyones opinions on how many times you think is "healthy" or "enough"
I really find it amusing that DH thinks everyone does it twice a day 
So anyway, whats your opinion? Once a week? Twice a day? Once a month?
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Leahsmummy
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 10:12am |
We have our "horny" moments  sometimes its anywhere between once - five times aweek and other times it once or twice a month.
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 10:14am |
Before now used to be once a day, sometimes more (he was stoked!) but now he's lucky if its once a month! (and yep, he MOANS all the time) 
Not sure what I will be like after bubs is born though.
I think it depends on how loving he is towards you, if he expects you to roll over and just give it out cos he feels the need then its not worth it! But if he makes you feel special first then of course you will be good to go 
(when I say 'you' I mean in general)
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 10:29am |
At the moment we only manage to fit it in a couple of times per week.
We'd both love to more often but it's difficult when we hardly ever see each other (we spend about 15 mins per day together Mon-Fri unless I meet him at lunchtime and TBH the middle of Wellington CBD during business hours really is not an appropriate setting lol).
Before I got pregnant (and the tiredness that comes with it) I used to wait up for him to get home a few times per week with the sole purpose of getting some weekday action.
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 10:29am |
lol um not very often at all. The day after AF has finished we could every day for a few days then once the next week then thats it. Very vary's as sometimes hes too tired or im tired or im in a bad mood etc
We only do If I start it cause he never bothers otherwise.
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 10:32am |
We used to most days DH is off work (he is a shift worker so is home 4 days out of 8) but now I guess it would be once or twice a week. I have a feeling it'll be more now that DH has convinced me that we should get rid of the condoms (sorry for the TMI)
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 10:48am |
DH is a shift worker too, which makes it really hard to get time in doesnt it
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 10:55am |
lol! They have way to much time and home to fill in don't they? And of course there is always one thing that needs to done as much as possible
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 11:04am |
lol, Ive forgotten how I even got pregnant.....
I cant stand sex when im pregnant, I feel icky and weird about it, plus it hurts like hell So poor DH is not getting any  I DO feel bad and I wish i felt like having sex, but I just dont have any sexual urges at all at the moment!
3 months after Caden was born we started having sex again, and it was great!!! but then I got pregnant lol...
I will make it up to him once this baby is born! lol
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 11:07am |
Well we are just starting ttc so I imagine it will be much more frequent...
But I'm sorry to say that we had gotten very bad and it was usually only once every couple of weeks, sometimes even only once a month
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 11:30am |
 kaiz231 wrote:
Sorry if this is a bit TMI.
I really find it amusing that DH thinks everyone does it twice a day
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LMAO! My Dh thinks exactly the same - he thinks quantity is better than quality. When we first got married it was like that, but over the years it's dwindled a bit, but I still think Dh is a very lucky man. On average it's probably 4 times a week, some weeks may only be a couple of times, and others its more. The longest it's been without it is after I'd had a baby and that was 6 weeks after Rico as he was a forceps delivery , and I probably would've waited longer but Dh was pretty persistant. And when I'm very sick with MS he doesn't get it much, maybe once a week.
DH likes to argue that he doesn't get it enough, but I show him the drawer fill with empty condom packets and he shuts up! And I do empty it frequently!
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 11:39am |
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Um, on average 2 or 3 times during the week, and 4 times over the weekend. (sometimes it turns into once or twice a week, other times its 10times a week)
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 11:39am |
LOL. Mine prefers quality and quantity
I have done the condom box thing too. He always complains that we dont do it enough, and yet we had a script for 360 condoms and they've gone. Yeah, we "never" do it
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 11:48am |
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I feel sorry for my DH, he used to get it every 2nd day sort of thing when ttc.
Now its usually 1-2 a week but only cos im so shattered at night time and weekends he keeps going hunting so ....... Hopefully it will pick up a bit cos i do feel sorry for the poor lad!
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 11:49am |
kaiz231 wrote:
I really find it amusing that DH thinks everyone does it twice a day
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LMAO!!! my DH thinks the same and iv always been curious to ask just so i could show Dh and say "SEE!!! YOU ARE NOT DEPRIVED ANYMORE THAN THE NEXT MAN!!!!"
Ours has varied over the years! when we first got together 10 years ago it was several times a day!!!  (we were horny teens!!) then evened out to generally once a day then i got pregnant with Bay and somewhere in that haze i got bad depression and only did it when i "had" to so around 3 times a month.
Generally now its once a week because doing it when your the size of a whale doesnt apeal to me! in non pregnant state it is around every 4 days.
Max time in between was 2 months without and that was because firstly DH had kidney probs so on alot of drugs and not into it!! then when he choped part of his hand off and once again on strong drugs!!
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 11:51am |
Cor .. I cant even see my private parts .. its not fair if DH gets too
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 12:12pm |
lilfatty wrote:
Cor .. I cant even see my private parts .. its not fair if DH gets too
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Bwahahahaha, I am so going to use that excuse next time! If there is a next time lol
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 12:54pm |
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LMAO!!!
For years it was always me wanting it,..and i was horny as when preg,..but not at all wanting to since I had Isla. Usually once or twice a fortnight, when ttc every second day for a week then back to once a week or less.
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Posted: 08 April 2009 at 1:04pm |
Special cuddles...what's that????
I got an IUD at 6 weeks....waste of time that is....my DH is a little scared of it!
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