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Topic: Never shake a baby Posted: 09 December 2009 at 11:07am |
Does any one else really not like that new ad. I can't stand that they are letting the baby cry. It's horrible.
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 11:12am |
I actually don't mind it
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 11:25am |
I think the ad is cleverly done but I can't stand a crying baby.
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 11:27am |
good message. can't stand crying babys either though. you can still pick them up for a hug...
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 11:31am |
I think it gets the message across though. No body likes a crying baby. This advert shows people that is ok to let the baby cry, better than picking baby up and shaking it.
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 11:32am |
I'm with Em....I'd rather let a baby cry then pick it up when I'm so frustrated/angry that I might hurt it, albeit unintentionally, by shaking it. The ad gets that across.
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 11:43am |
I don't mind the ad but it's not going to stop people who would shake a baby from doing it.
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 11:57am |
summerlamb wrote:
I don't mind the ad but it's not going to stop people who would shake a baby from doing it. |
Have to agree on this one, people that shake babies probably wont see these adds.
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 12:04pm |
I think it is a really effective ad myself. And I do think some people just lose control. No, it won't stop those who torture children (aka Nia Glassie) but it does show people that are at teh end of their tether that it's okay to walk away.
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 12:38pm |
mrsg1 wrote:
summerlamb wrote:
I don't mind the ad but it's not going to stop people who would shake a baby from doing it. |
Have to agree on this one, people that shake babies probably wont see these adds. |
i dont know why you think they wouldnt see the ads. are you stereotyping people who shake babies? cause if you are you are sadly mistaken. People who shake babies come from all walks of like, its not just those from lower socio economic areas who dont have access to tv!
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 12:46pm |
I agree with Bizzy and that's exactly what the ad is showing. - all good during the day but at nighttime when the baby is crying and they're all frustrated and don't know what to do...
However, they said they used a young Maori guy because statistics show a higher incidence of shaken babies in this 'group'. And it is recommended that you put the baby down in a safe place while you get yourself together and calm if you are in this position.
Noone likes to hear a baby crying and upset  I think the ad is well done.
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 12:49pm |
I always thought that someone who would hurt/shake a baby would do so no matter what info they got. But actually from the info I'm getting from other health care professionals (I work in a large DHB) about campaigns like this one (and the anti-smacking stuff) was that there's a large group of people who DIDN'T know these things weren't okay and are now seeking help for coping and parenting skills. I reckon even if it stopped one kid from being brain damaged or beaten to death it'd be worth it.
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 1:02pm |
I agree with Bizzy. I think in some cases, it's nothing to do with a person's upbringing, but sleep deprivation and frustration can lead a person to just lose their patience, and that's when things like this happen. It's completely different to someone who systematically abuses their children - a lot of people don't realise what damage shaking can do. The ad may make people think twice about picking up a baby when they are angry (they may not be intending to hurt bubs, but their frustration is overwhelming).
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 1:14pm |
Yep I agree with Bizzy and Minik8e - sometimes people come to the end of their tether. And they're not necessarily the people who you'd expect to hurt kids. Having a baby, I can see how someone who perhaps isn't equiped with coping skills could lose it for a second. I'd never hurt my son, but it has given me that insight...
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 1:14pm |
Woah, I'm hoping that you're aiming the comment as mrsg1 because I wasn't implying anything about the 'type' of people, just that in my opinion I didn't think an ad on tv would change anything. I would love to be wrong and as the previous poster wrote, if it saves one baby it is worthwhile, I just don't think an ad on tv will stop anyone who is going to harm a child.
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 1:25pm |
Aww everytime the baby cries in that ad I get all teary but I'm super glad they're doing the ads - and I think they're well done too.
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 1:37pm |
ummmm i have to ask...what ad?
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 1:43pm |
i think it's a great ad, it needs to be on and the topic out there, it happens a lot and as othres have said anyone may or can lose it, doesn't matter who you are or what socio enconomic group you fall into.
more ad's like these are needed i say
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 1:51pm |
I still remember an ad from when I was a young child that said "Never EVER shake a Baby" and I still remember it to this day. There are people out there who don't realise the effects shaking has on babies. I always knew not to shake a baby, but I didnt realise what kind of serious damage it could do up until a few months ago. There was a doco on a wee girl whos grandparents were taking care of her, I think her father was in jail for shaking her? She couldn't do much on her own, just heartbreaking.
The wee baby does sound really upset on the ad, but I guess they used that to get the point across.
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Posted: 09 December 2009 at 1:58pm |
summerlamb wrote:
Woah, I'm hoping that you're aiming the comment as mrsg1 because I wasn't implying anything about the 'type' of people, just that in my opinion I didn't think an ad on tv would change anything. I would love to be wrong and as the previous poster wrote, if it saves one baby it is worthwhile, I just don't think an ad on tv will stop anyone who is going to harm a child. |
quite often people who shake babies arent intending to do them harm! there is a big difference to the person who wants to harm a child and deliberately sets out to do harm and parents on the edge who shake a child out of frustration and dont realise the serious consequences to that action.
and yes my comment was aimed at msg1 and anyone else who would think the same.
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