Trusting your partner

I was just curious about trust within other peoples relationships. I know it varies for people, feel free to not answer if you think I'm prying! Just curious really. I had a friend who wouldn't even let her DF have a bachelor party as she didn't trust him

My Dad is married and there is no trust within their relationship- they are still together, have been for years and I would say they will be for a long time yet. Its not something I personally 'get' but it seems to work for them.

I trust DH implicitly. I trust in his love for his children, for me and us as a family- hes an intelligent man and he knows that he would be destroying that if he ever cheated. I also trust that if he were to ever cheat, even though I would be heartbroken, I am strong enough within myself to get over it and build a new life.

I was talking to a friend about DHs 30th and I was saying that we probably wouldn't be able to have a big party for it so I was thinking of sending him and his bestie to Las Vegas for a weekend and she was horrified! She couldn't believe that I trusted him enough to consider letting him go on his own. For me I didn't even really give it a second thought- didn't even occur to me to think along those lines.

So what do you guys think? Where do you fall on the trust scale? Do you think its possible to have a good relationship with little or no trust? Do you think its possible to be too trusting?

Well my DH is building his trust back up with me. We had some issues last year which resulted in him living with his parents for a week.

We now have a good relationship but as for trusting him its not quite up there yet, but I know he can't get up to much in Waiouru at the moment with his cousin there.

I completely trust my DH, I couldn't imagine being in a relationship that doesn't have trust and communication for those times when that trust is tested (hasn't happened yet). I agree that relationships need to be built on trust to be happy and fulfilling.

Well I sure as heck wouldn't be sending mine to Vegas for a birthday with his bestie...I'd be horrified at the thought too! Fancy leaving me behind when it is one of the cities I most want to visit!!!

Hehehehe....seriously though...I trust B completely, in any situation. No question.

I completely trust my hubby, wouldn't be able to live the life we do if we didn't have complete trust in each other. We were separated for 5 months after only being together for 2 (when he first went to Afghanistan). There was no question whatsoever about trust.

I would definitely send my hubby away for a boys weekend. I even helped organise all the guys for his stags night so that he would get absolutely trollied in the best company! But then again I know DH's friends would never put him in a position where he would or could cheat...

The only thing I don't trust DH with is money! He's such a shopaholic!

Paws wrote: I trust B completely, in any situation. No question.

Here too

I'm not sure how a relationship would work without trust?

I trust Willie, from time to time I do get these niggly little doubts but they're based on what we went thru before we separated and he is a totally different person now, I just have little insecurities every now and then. But I do 100% trust him.

I agree Miss. We had infidelity issues before we separated and I totally held him to account for his part in it. Funny thing is that we got back together 18 months later, yet I have never spoken to the woman again even tho she used to be a very close friend.

I trust DH with my life, and my kids life no question.
I love him 100% and he's my bestest friend in the world.

Unfortunately I'm questioning that trust at the moment, and it's effecting our relationship. Instead of him being here trying to work it out, he's at a stag do.

finally am getting trust back with dh, but finding it more difficult to trust that the dishes will be done, if I ask him to. strange I know, but strangely important too.