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kellverona 
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Posted: 05 August 2006 at 11:30am |
Has anyone else had dreams about sex alot. I must be sexually fustrated, lol. Ive been having them a hell of alot and they seem so real, lol. hanging out. My partner and I are not having intercourse at the moment and rarely throughout the pregnancy. We both feel a bit uncomfortable about it, and especially being so close to having Jaxon we would rather wait.
So I have come to the conclusion that this is the reason why I am dreaming about it all the time. Also in the dreams I am very sexy. Not fat, and pregnant, lol.
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busymum
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Posted: 05 August 2006 at 12:28pm |
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Is there a medical reason you are abstaining? Because after Jaxon is born you'll have another 6 weeks (about) to wait again. The next three weeks might be the last time you feel up to it for a while.
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Posted: 05 August 2006 at 12:46pm |
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Yeah I did too i had real weird ones about people i know it was weird. But it did stop after Jack was born
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kellverona
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Posted: 05 August 2006 at 1:09pm |
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No, no medical reason and have wanted to bu just feel weird because jaxon is right there now, lol.
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my2angels
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Posted: 05 August 2006 at 1:16pm |
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we were the same, neither of us was comfortable with having sex while I was pregnant and I think I did have some dodgy dreams so you are not alone, more than likely due to not getting any for a while but you can have sex as soon as your ready after baby is born, I certainly didnt wait 6 weeks with either child hehe
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Posted: 05 August 2006 at 1:18pm |
lol there are other ways to pleasure each other without "doing it"  Have fun while you can i say.
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Posted: 05 August 2006 at 2:08pm |
LOL I was about to say the same thing Maria!
In fact, you don't even need hubby! hehe 
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Posted: 05 August 2006 at 3:54pm |
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lol. Yeah go for it Kelly!
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Posted: 05 August 2006 at 4:38pm |
ROFL!!!! You cheeky monkeys!!  (although I secretly agree!)
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Posted: 05 August 2006 at 5:05pm |
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Busymum....six weeks? We lasted about two....and I'd heard stories from someone or other - or it might have been in a parenting magazine - about someone who got back into the saddle the next day. I'm not advocating jumping your other half in the maternity ward, but hey, whatever suits!
In any case - do what you are comfortable with - and if dreaming about it is as close as you're getting, at least pregnancy dreams tend to be vivid!
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Posted: 05 August 2006 at 5:47pm |
geez 2 weeks huh?  I told my husband the MW told me 12 weeks until we went to visit friends who had had a baby the same time as us and the husband said to rob. So you had your six week romp yet. lol. Well you should have seen the looks i got.........
Plus i think i bled for like 4 weeks so there is no way i would have even considered it before then.
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Posted: 05 August 2006 at 9:06pm |
It was 4 weeks after our first but she was a c-section, I bled for 2 weeks, and was strongly advised to wait for 6 weeks so as to not rupture the scar... ah well I felt ready
But the second time around I had stitches and that was 7 weeks! Ouchies (the stitches I mean lol)
Well I hope the next few weeks roll on quickly for you Kellv...
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Posted: 05 August 2006 at 9:11pm |
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I had stitches but didnt even notice and was lucky I only really bleed for a couple of weeks but then got my period at 5 weeks this time which sucks!
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Posted: 06 August 2006 at 9:37am |
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oh yea! lol right through my pregnancy my libido - both awake & in dream-land has been extremely high!
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Posted: 06 August 2006 at 10:12am |
I think we waited at LEAST 8 weeks?? Bleeding, plus I was just soooooo tired!
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Posted: 06 August 2006 at 12:18pm |
We gave it a shot last night but honestly it wasn't that comfy for me...but as others have said there are other things you can do if you're comfy with that...
The girls and I from work has our Joanna G party on Friday night (lingere and "power tools") and I will say there are a few purchases on thier way to me in readiness for our six week romp....unless we're asleep!
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Posted: 06 August 2006 at 3:03pm |
you are terrible paws!!!
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Posted: 06 August 2006 at 3:24pm |
the last two days both children have been having afternoon sleeps at the same time and we have been jumping into bed but its a tough decision sex or sleep both very important you know
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Posted: 06 August 2006 at 3:57pm |
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Posted: 07 August 2006 at 8:37am |
OK so up till now I have been far too well behaved for you lot, but last night I had the weirdest dream (actually it was this morning in between frequent trips to the toilet...)
Anyways in the dream I was having very hot steamy sex with... Jake the Muss? I mean, I know I like big black men (and they make beautiful babies ), but wife beaters aren't usually my type... 
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Sexual Dreams, lol
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