This is driving me nut’s!

Ok so not sure where to put this, but I am having the worst baby ache's now.  I really want another baby ,but I know i have to wait a bit longer.  Has anyone else felt like this?    What did you do to make it go away?   I am almost in tear's about this whole thing and think about it nearlly all the time I know so many people that are Pregnant at the moment which does not help. 

Edited by AlanMikeymummy

I have moments of feeling the same way, and other moments I think "I am soooo never doing this again!"

I used to worry that it would never go away and I would just keep having baby after baby and still never fix that longing, but a friend who has just had her last baby told me that she feels done now, that the longing is absolutely and completely gone.

OMG nooooo ...... I so dont miss being pregnant it was the worst time ever!!!!

One day i might do it again....maybe!!!

It must be hard being around all those people who are pregnant tho esp if you want another one....wanna borrow mine?

Debs, I went through that sooooo bad last year, I knew mikes decision was 2 kids, and no more, and when he actually booked himself in for that vasectomy I thought , well, that's it then. (obviously it wasn't through some weird twist of fate!) But when all the people who had their bubs at the same time as I had Ayja, were all becomming preggers again, or even having babies, or some were going on to have their 3rd.. I had the worst baby aches. My sister told me the other day she remembers me saying to her after mike had his vasectomy that"I can't help but think there's a little boy out there waiting for us".. which sounds so stuuupid. We definately had not planned this #3, and it freaked me out completely. But somehow, i do know now, that after this one, those baby aches might come back a little once it gets past the baby stage, but 3 is my complete limit now.

I just got on with what i had to do, ha ha, and found a job working with bubbas.. I know you plan to be a SAHM.. maybe you could volunteer sometimes to look after other peoples babys as a babysitting service etc.. it fulfils the want to give a cute baby a cuddle but it's nice to give em back.

The nice thing i spose you can remember is that you wil have more, just not right now. I focussed on having as much fun with my girls as i could, even though they don't need me much for th elittle things any more, they need me to expand their minds and teach them all the big stuff now - which is pretty scary. So have fun with your boys, and know that when the time is right it will happen again and you'll have 2 wonderful big brother helpers there to help you out!.

Oh good so pleased I am not the only one.  It is awful.  And yes Rach I was in town today and I swear there were heap's of pretty Preggy bellies around.  Oh well I guess we jsut have to go with it and see what happen's.

mmm i know - sometimes io think we are so far looking ahead that we miss all the present stuff though. I have learnt now to just sit back and watch the girls and marvel at what wonderful kids they are.. if i do say so myself.

Oh man i remember having this feeling!! (when we were trying but unable to concieve) walking around and all i saw was big preggy ladies!!! and then all my close family (SIL and others) started getting pregnant!!!i cried every single time i had to be around them but mostly my SIL cos hers was an "accident" I hated the feeling!!!!!!! and im sorry that you are feeling that way it sux big time!!!!!