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Bizzy 
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Posted: 16 May 2007 at 11:00pm |
grrrr - so much to complain about him, not enough space on here even for that novel.... 
we have hardly even spoken to each other since mothers day...such an arse...grrrr. and yesterday he had a day off work and said he needed to have a day off to himself....WHAT the ...... grrrrr. so he did, but all he did was the same stuff me and the kids did - warehouse, lunch, home.... gggrrrrr and then he tells me at 8 this am he wasnt coming home for dinner so i had to do bath and bed routine by myself when he normally does it and he is working late tomorrow too.
i asked him what his problem is and he gives me this big sad "i dont know" like now we have to discuss his problems but i have had enough and just said whatever.! so once again he went to bed early and left me in the lounge.... gggrrrrrr. arse is all i can say.
oh well, life goes on. and as my mum keeps reminding me back in her day that was normal and med who did stuff for the kids was not the norm.
i feel better now - but hes still an arse. 
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Posted: 16 May 2007 at 11:13pm |
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Busy mum to Miss 15yrs, Miss 10yrs and Master 4yrs
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Posted: 16 May 2007 at 11:14pm |
Sounds exactly like something my DP would do Sorry no advice to offer, but I understand!
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Posted: 16 May 2007 at 11:55pm |
Sigh. MEN! My DH often goes to work late in the mornings because he just needs to sleep in since he worked late the night before. This morning he gave me that excuse, so I got up, got Em dressed and breakfasted and ready to go see Emma for a meeting, and was rushing around, cleaning up, feeding the dog, packing our stuff... When I came back into the bedroom to get a sweater, I found him in bed reading a new science fiction novel! When he saw me, he whipped it under the covers. GRR!
And I get that same excuse for needing a day off -- that he needs "me time" -- and then he does exactly what your DH does, gandt. Goes to the Warehouse, surfs the internet, eats fast food lunches.
What hacks me off the most is that when I have to go to work away from home, I have to pay for childcare out of whatever pittance I make -- so when I want a day off, I either need to "book" him to look after Em, or pay a babysitter -- but when he wants a day off, he's got ME to do the care. GRRR!
Let's send them to Husband Boot Camp! (my recurring fantasy!)
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Posted: 17 May 2007 at 6:30am |
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I am so there at the momemnt! BUT, I'm off on teaching section at the mo, so hubby is at home with the kids everyday! (see how you like it buddy!), and I tell you what, when I pull in the driveway, he's ready to go to wokr - practically throws me out of the car and jumps in! *he works nights). But the worst part is walking in and seeing "all" the housework he's done....grrr
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Posted: 17 May 2007 at 9:55am |
oh gandt thats the exact word i use to describe my DH sometimes (a little more frequently than sometime! ). I hope he sorts his crap out soon!! and i hope you feel better soon 
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Posted: 17 May 2007 at 10:17am |
 Katherine wrote:
...Let's send them to Husband Boot Camp! (my recurring fantasy!) |
Gawd that would be a great idea. If only!!
What is it with selfish husbands? No wonder we nag!
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Posted: 17 May 2007 at 10:40am |
I am about to have a husband, so ladies by the time this happens you have to let me know the details of the boot camp. My Dp sure could do with a swift kick up the backside.
I will send a cyper  your way and hope that today is a better day for you!
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Posted: 17 May 2007 at 2:23pm |
What is it with men always thinking they have the monopoly on tiredness and stress????? My day goes a little something like this: 6am wake up when Joshua does - up, Jman dressed, bottle, breakfast; 7am DP gets up, me shower and back downstairs, make lunches, tidy, dishes etc; 8.15am - Jman to daycare, us to work; 2.30pm - me leave work, collect Jman, home, unload dishwasher, prepare Jman dinner, play with Jman, give him dinner 6.15pm - DP home, DP baths Jman, me prepare our dinner, make bottles, give Jman bottle, 20mins getting him to sleep; 7.30 - start cooking dinner; 8.30pm - eat dinner, do dishes, tidy house 9.30pm bed for me..... DP's day - 7am - wake up, eat breakfast, drink coffee; 7.45 - shower, get ready for work; 8.15am - go to work; 6.15pm - get home, small rest, bath Jman, then chill out FOR THE REST OF THE NIGHT.....
Dunno about you guys, but MAN..... MEN P*** ME OFF SOMETIMES!!!
Vent, and release 
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Posted: 17 May 2007 at 2:36pm |
Where is this magical sounding husband boot-camp and how fast can I get an application in?!?
I had to laugh the other night though - DH had been uncharacteristically moody around me since the day before. Finally, Ella was asleep, my housewifely duties (!?!) were finished, and I could sit down with him, ready to watch House. But he still seemed pi$$y about something... so I heaved a big sigh and reluctantly asked him if he wanted to talk about his feelings, then muttered something along the lines of "oh lord, no" when he said yes and actually started to! All I needed was a beer in hand and I'd sooo be the man!
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Posted: 17 May 2007 at 2:41pm |
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Posted: 17 May 2007 at 4:13pm |
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I have had a lightbulb moment! When we all go to the OHbaby! Mega Meet we will arrange a simultaneous 'boot camp' for the useless male species and while we lounge around Welington for the weekend they can be learning why it isn't a good idea to bite the hand that cooks your dinner.
GandT - call me!
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Posted: 17 May 2007 at 4:31pm |
Emma, that is a fabulous idea, only... Who will we get to lead the camp? A "reformed" husband (is there such a thing)? Or a bunch of pissed-off wives? LOL
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Posted: 17 May 2007 at 4:36pm |
I'm with the bunch of pissed off mums approach
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Posted: 17 May 2007 at 5:35pm |
i vote a bunch of pissed off transvetites...the best of both worlds. 
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Posted: 17 May 2007 at 5:44pm |
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LOL gandt!!!!!!
My hubby and I haven't talked since yesterday after work and he slept on the couch and I actually really liked having the bed to myself so I am not talking to him again tonight to see if I get it again - LOL. Terrible aye.
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Posted: 17 May 2007 at 9:58pm |
Ahahahahahahhahhahah....
Women.... 
"Mens boot camp" wouldn't work. If you really want a good insightful book into guys get "Men are Clams and Women are Crowbars" by Dr David Clarke.
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Posted: 17 May 2007 at 11:02pm |
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LOL at this thread....BSDH hasnt found it - YET!!!!
HE got annoyed at me this am as i wanted to upload photos of ella and email...I got yelled at that he was waiting to have a shower...ummmmm he couldnt have done that instead of watching cartons downstairs???? hmmmmm
oh yeah and apparently last nite he had given heaps of time to his daughter and felt it was my turn so could i PLEASE come take her - excuse me....it was less than 20 mins with him and i had her ALL day and got dinner etc etc etc.....OMG!!!
boot camp is a great idea!
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Posted: 18 May 2007 at 6:34am |
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Posted: 18 May 2007 at 7:27am |
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Deb hope hes woken up in a better mood today.
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