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BSDH 
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 7:11am |
to get your sex drive back.....  Sorry but I had to ask I want to fiqure out what's kinda normal 
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 7:27am |
For bloody ever!! 
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 7:35am |
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lol Im so with you there Paws.... I didnt really get mine back totally till id finished BF.
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 7:53am |
sometime up to a year 
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 7:54am |
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Our youngest is 2.5years and I have only just got mine back!! Poor long suffering Dh
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 8:06am |
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still not around in this household. Think I left it at the hospital
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 8:16am |
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hmmm for me I was hanging out till things felt normal down there so i could jump my hubby but in saying that, neither of us liked doing it while I was pregnant so it had been a looooong time since we had seen any action!
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 8:36am |
OMFG - just cause i was asleep this morn when you wanted to fool around!!! LOL!!!
glad you girls are helping me out a bit here...and also as AF still a no show I need to find other contraceptive methods...for now abstinence is a good one (altho not ideal) - Love ya tho Hon! 
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 8:53am |
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Depends. All my friends were the same. Until we all realised you aint getting it back until you actually do it and then it will come back.
Okay that was now way way way too much information there.
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 8:58am |
Ummm ... 5 days 
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 9:06am |
After c/s I was interested at about 4 weeks - actually I was kinda interested at about 2 weeks but that was a bit risky!! After episiotomy/tear down there, it took 7-8 weeks before I was interested at all! Took a few goes to get the hang of it again and not be so paranoid about things bursting or hurting, and 2 months on from that things were ok again. We're back to normal now... and I'm a bit clucky already too Once my AF cycle comes back I get the hormonal fluctuations and that really gets my drive/initiation back 
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BSDH
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 9:50am |
Sorry but just have to ask the hard hitting questions nobody else will 
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 9:53am |
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After Andrew it was back quite fast but Josh is another story sorry. I think it is down to BF but maybe not.
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I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 9:59am |
I'm still waiting. It's not that I have no mojo, more just that my time is precious, and I'd far rather spend it sleeping
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BSDH
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 10:34am |
So does that mean it may never happen or what? and before it happened ie The beast with two backs did everything get tidyed up I mean did the weed wacker's come out etc.
What can us DH's Dp's and DF's do to try and get you back in the swing(not that sort of swing don't be rude)
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I love my wee girl - Gabriella
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 10:36am |
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i'm still waiting for mine too...haven't seen it for about 3yrs! poor DH
he keeps telling me, the more you have it, the more you want it babe
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 10:37am |
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Give us time to get back into it!!!!!!!! Seriously I feel everytime he bugs me for it I so don't want it at all, but if he leaves it for a bit I do want it.
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I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 10:41am |
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I've found the more I have it the more I want it. But I second Emma too, sometimes sleep is so much more appealing!
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 11:03am |
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Scott the best thing my DH can do is come home and be ready to help with the girls cause it's a very tiring job. Then when they are in bed he can hint to me that he's hoping for some tonight and ask me what can he do to help me get ready? My answer often is something like, when K goes to bed I'd like to have a relaxing shower - a bit of time out - and get changed into something clean/not smelly, and once I've had my little time-out routine I feel mentally recharged and can join in. Sometimes though I have to say sorry, I'm far too tired, but I'll do what I can to make sure you don't have to wait too much longer.
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 11:54am |
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