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caraMel
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Topic: At what age did you start.. Posted: 09 August 2007 at 11:13am |
Reading to your children before bed?
I'm just interested because my friend laughed at me when I told her I had started reading to Benjy at bedtime
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 11:14am |
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I heard that its good to read to them even when they are tiny babies so I cant see any reason why she would think it is funny to read to Benjy now.
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 11:24am |
I'm planning on reading from day 1!
"Every child, Every day" I love that quote about reading..........don't know who said it though
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 11:26am |
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we started pretty early too - in fact its my husbands job to read bedtime stories.
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 11:43am |
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I heard you can even read to them when they are still in your tummy!
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 11:53am |
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Doesn't sound silly to me, its never too early, and gives you some good one on one time with Benjy at the end of the day, enjoy it.
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 11:55am |
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DH read her his boating mag while she was still inside...only problem with that was i had to hear it all too!!!
WE have some books we play read to her...and her bedtime routine at moment doesnt allow for books - only cause she gets fed in dark...but I love books and reading so she has heaps of books and it is wherever whenever for her...as much as possible...
for your friend to laugh is strange....reading is a skill every child should have and bonding via reading is very important....my fave book for years was a picture dictionary as a child!
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 12:17pm |
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We started reading to Matt when he was a couple of months old. He loves reading now & will often go & grab a book & sit there 'reading'. He gets a couple of stories each night before bed & it's really nice just to have that quiet time with him.
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 12:30pm |
I don't think she was laughing at reading in general, we read books all the time. Its a good quiet activity!
I think she just found it funny that I read him a bedtime story because she thinks he's too young to appreciate it or something.
I'm going to go back to her armed with all of your relies now, 'See, I'm not weird!' Thanks!
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 12:32pm |
I don't necessarily read before bed, but at about 1 was when my girls started getting really interested in books. I don't see the problem! Briona even went through a stage where she'd get a book and come and 'plomp' down in your lap and that meant "please read this to me"
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 12:41pm |
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lol busymum thats what jack does at the moment
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 12:45pm |
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he may not totally understand whatyou are reading to him but I am sure he appreciates quiet time with mummy and finds your voice soothing...and it gets him used to different speech patterns etc.
A friend of mine told me that reading is important as it uses are much larger vocab than we do when speaking so you will be teaching him new words.
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 1:01pm |
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Benjy is 1 right? thaqt's not too early, that's perfect for getting into a bigger kids routine of reading and quiet time before bed.. definately helps once they are ready to get rid of bottle or bedtime BF cos you already have that before bed routine for them to fall back on anyway so you can just subsitute the feed for a sipper cup while you read a story.
Not too early at all.
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 1:48pm |
Andrew was about 1year old when DH started reading him a book at bed time. It is is routine for bedtime now and it works really well.
I was also told it is never too early to get children in to reading especially boys.
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 1:57pm |
Maya was about 6 weeks old, but she was doomed from the start, her mother is a writer so our house is literally overflowing with books
I don't read regular bedtime stories to the gremlins yet tho, mostly coz by bedtime I'm over the lot of them, but Maya reads me her reading book from preschool while I give them their bedtime bottle, so they are kind of a part of that. They're far more interested in eating books than reading them tho!
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 2:01pm |
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DH and I used to read to Kaleb while he was still a bump. Now we read to him at least 3 times a week but not always at bedtime. He loves having a book put in front of him and we've even got video footage showing him looking intently at a picture then turning head to other page.
Slightly OT I have told DH, who isn't really into reading (has dyslexia too) that I want him to try and always have a book on the go (even if he only reads a page a day) so that Kaleb gets a positive male role model with reading too (i.e. reading our own books as well as books to him).
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 2:17pm |
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we have been reading to xanthe since she was born.
but for some reason we still havnt gotten into the habit with jordis?? poor second child lol.
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 2:54pm |
We do it every so often, it hasn't become part of the routine yet, as sometimes Ashlee would rather scoot around the floor after her bottle instead of sitting quietly and reading.
But on the occasion, we have got out Hairy Maclary and read her that and every so often when we're reading, she turns and looks at whoever's reading the book and smiles and laughs like she's enjoying it! I think it's great!!! Definitely feels like she's appreciating it when she does that.
I don't think one is too young
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 3:05pm |
Faraway wrote:
Slightly OT I have told DH, who isn't really into reading (has dyslexia too) that I want him to try and always have a book on the go (even if he only reads a page a day) so that Kaleb gets a positive male role model with reading too (i.e. reading our own books as well as books to him).
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My brothers were never big readers and my mum used to give them a magazine subscription every year for Xmas coz they refused to read books and she figured magazines were better than nothing.
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 3:38pm |
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I think that its never to early to start reading to your children. I try to read to Zoe before bedtime, but she won't sit still.
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