help she hates her big bed

Well after my whole reluctance to put up her big girls bed I finally did and she hates it! At the start she played on it then when i put on her sheets and duvet she wouldnt have a bar of it. What do I do? Kobe went straight into his bed, the minute it was up he refused his cot but every time addi goes for a sleep i ask if she wants to sleep in her big bed but she cries and points to her cot. if i lay her in it she just screams and jumps straight out. Ive tried lying in there with her during the day (dont want to get her in the habit of me sleeping with her) but its just not happening. So do I take the cot down and make her sleep in it, give it a bit more time (its been about a week since i put it up) or just take down the big bed and try it later? Oh and she can climb in and out of it, its really low to the ground so dont think thats the problem. Any ideas?

Can you leave them both up so she can continue in her cot but play on the bed and get used to it. Then try again in a month or so.

What about trying taking down the cot just for the day and see if that works.. if it doesn't you can always put it back up.

Can you take the side off her cot, so its like a little big bed? We had the side off Han's for quite a while, but the transition to big bed was no problem at all.

I was mean and took the cot down and shut the door so he couldn't get out. It took a week max before Jack was fine with it.

He was quite a bit older and I couldn't really put him back in his cot since he kept jumping/falling out.

It won't hurt ot leave her in the cot a bit longer.

Maya was a bit of a monkey when she first went into a bed, she was closer to 2 tho, maybe 22 months or so? She got out of bed a few times but in the end I shut the bedroom door and she couldn't reach the handle to come out.

I know Ang is having problems with getting her Ella to stay in bed, they've got the cot and bed up in her room but she won't stay in either.