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kellverona 
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 Posted: 11 May 2006 at 11:34am |
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Last time my partner and I got together I got cramping pains too. Neverhad sex again since. It was very uncomfortable. They went away after about an hour or so.
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MILF
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Posted: 11 May 2006 at 12:06pm |
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??? how long are you planning on going without sex for? either your guy is really sensitve to how you feel or my guy is a neanderthol....
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Roksana
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Posted: 11 May 2006 at 1:22pm |
Well the thing is that I had a really bad bleed at 18 weeks and had a big pouch of blood sitting above my placenta. Doc said no action till that goes away....it took several weeks.....finally when we could roll in hay my hubby was too scared that I would bleed again. The problem was that I wanted to roll around all the time.....oh well.... 
Good on all of you who still get somthng somthng at later stages!!! 
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my2angels
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Posted: 11 May 2006 at 6:08pm |
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I just feel to weird now there are definately 3 in the equation. once baby started kicking that was it for us in the bedroom department. Hubby doesnt mind at all, he feels the same way as me in fact its probably more him than me that doesnt want to do the deed.
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nikkitheknitter
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Posted: 11 May 2006 at 10:36pm |
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See I wish I'd had a husband or a boyfriend or some time of male figure who could have helped me through pregnancy. It drove me nuts!!!!
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daikini
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 10:22am |
I know what you mean, Nikki! I get so increadably (sp?) horny from about this point in each pregnancy...
Kiya's father did a runner 6 weeks later... AAAGGGHHH!!!
I was still bleeding on and off with Josiah, and we didn't know why so we were being careful about EVERYTHING... AAGGHHH!!! 
But I haven't bled this time since week 4 - and I've jumped Nat twice in the last two days! It's all good! 
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mrs frantic
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 10:27am |
humph! I wish I was as keen! I feel like someone took my sex drive out the back and beat it to death! I think its got to do with my body image - i dont feel sexy at all! I dunno, but I am missing wanting it - and I am sure dh is feeling it too although he hasnt been too pushy so far... 
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caraMel
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 1:47pm |
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i'm feeling much the same mrs frantic. its hard to get into it when you feel so self concious about the way you're looking.
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Paws
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 2:13pm |
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I had a brief sex kitten minx thing a few weeks ago but that seems to have dried up.
Lucky for me hubby is very understanding!
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Paws
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 2:15pm |
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Oh and it's not that it hurts it's just that I have NO motivation! *sigh*
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Two Blondinis
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 2:21pm |
I think I used up all of my "sex kitten minx" thing in the first and second trimesters lol
But hubby feels a bit "weirded out" when we're only having a cuddle and bubs kicks him, I wonder what would happen if the "relations" started up again? lol 
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Kelpa
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 4:35pm |
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My sex drive has come back....Mind you I never initiate it!!! Enjoy it tho and dont get any cramps or pain....
Just the old tightening in the yum from "O"s!!!
All good.
Endorphins are great!
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jack_&_charli
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 5:05pm |
i've completely lost my mojo! 
its not that i'm worried about how i look, i've always got a flabby tum, but it's just not comfortable for me mostly
i think my last 8-10wks with jack were the 'busiest' times
poor dean, he's so hard done by 
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jax
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 7:15pm |
Been feeling horny as, planning to jump poor Rols tonight *evil chuckle* !!!!!
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Kelpa
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 7:17pm |
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GO GIRL!!!
Get that boy moving!
Its so bloody cold..need something to warm up.
I am at work so have taken the FOOD option...AGAIN!
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 8:17pm |
i,m with nickki i whished like mad that there was a man around it drove me nuts at times 
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 9:40pm |
Lol well I think no more "friendly cuddles" in this household. They seem to trigger all the aches & niggles and then nothing happens!! I'm going insane! I keep thing "oh yes maybe this is it!" because all the pains come & even start getting a pattern to them and then they just stop
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Roksana
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Posted: 15 May 2006 at 9:54am |
He he ha ha ....you guys are soooo funny!!!
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Posted: 15 May 2006 at 10:25am |
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Poor old Willie hasn't had any loving since we found out we were preg. I thought I'd get over the whole fear of m/c thing after first tri, but now he is too scared of hurting the babies, and plus I think my belly would get in the way already.
Funny thing is with Maya we just kept on as usual. I think I worry much more these days...
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Posted: 15 May 2006 at 3:19pm |
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Well Emma...you do have TWO to think of this time around!!!! However 25 weeks of no action might get a bit too much huh?
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