AnnC wrote:
its also an could be image thing... if you complaiment your wife without it having to lead to sex it goes a long way.. even before heading out the door you could compliment how she looks etc...
Carrying a child and child birth plays alot on your body and so just to be made to feel 'sexy' without something attatch to the compliment - if its just before 'it' it takes away the compliment.. IYKWIM? |
You so summed up what I was thinking!
if I feel attractive or have been made to feel attractive by B saying something with no 'strings attached'....it goes a long way!
Also helps if I'm not feeling stressed out and exhausted.
What helps most though is that hubby is really understanding, it takes the pressure of so when we do get some action....it's wow!
Right...enough TMI tonight.