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I don't know how long you two have been together, but Bombshell might be able to advise on legal aspects if you pm her and explain the situation.

DH and I are in hamilton and when you need a hand shifting please let us know, we would like to help.

Very sorry Renee, that it's come to this. You have one cute bubba, and your new neice/nephew to be is very lucky to have such a strong aunty. x

Cath is 25 days old.
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No more to add than what has been said. Definately contact WINZ.

We have given away all of Tyrell's stuff, but I can offer some sheets and towels for you not sure what else we have that could help. But if there is anything just let me know.

 
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Will you stay in Hamilton Renee?

Big . I am in Hamilton during the day so let me know if you want to meet up for a coffee, or need some company after work.
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Renee big hugs. Def make sure that you put yourself and Sam first.
I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!
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Big for you, I hope you are doing ok!!
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Huge and lots of love from me too hun!
I wish I was down there to offer some real support!
I hope you're doing ok today.
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Oh no!!! Sorry to hear about the breakdown, but it's good that you have made a decision.

I hope it all works out for you... wish I was a bit closer so I could help.

I'll be home next week in Rotorua if you need to get away from Hamilton.
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Just a big hug from me too.

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Kalem 6!
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Oh Renee,       to you and Sam.  You strike me as a strong woman, and you can get through this, even though it's mighty hard.  Glad you've got family around, and you know we're all always here for ya.  You're an amazing parent and you're doing such a great job (under tough circumstances too)!  
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Renee, I am so sorry to hear your news. It is awesome that you managed to talk last night and maybe he will be able to look at counselling in the future as at least he knows he has a problem (lets face it, after what we have heard about his mother it would be hard not to have a problem!) For now, look after yourself and know that you will be fine because you love Sam and have friends, family and Oh baby behind you.
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For you and Sam
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That's great that he's willing to help you to move on, with finanical support. Since you're not moving out so soon, maybe you could start to collect furniture & bits n pieces before you go.

It must be a very emotional time for you hun, but you're very brave in doing what's best for you & Sam. It would be better for Sam to have a happy solo mummy, than an unhappy mum with a partner.

BIG HUGS TO YOU HUN!!! It's a lot to think about I'm sure, so glad to hear you have family support.
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renee - just realised I have a TON of sheets and towels - old but usuable. my nana cleaned out her linen closet for me when we moved to gisborne, but we don't use everything - mostly single sheets and pillowcases. Some of it is in our linen closet but a huge lot is in suitcases casue i can't fit it in. if you want it - yell out and PM me an address.
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Renee. Thinking of you and little Sam
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Sorry to hear this.. :( Although it sounds like he realises there is an issue - perhaps counselling could help him to find his feelings.. it doesnt sound all lost from my perspective, but I dont the full story.. all the best
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at least he realises he has some problems and that's a great first step! as miss said...we've heard what his mum is like so it's no wonder!!!
who knows renee, maybe this time apart will do wonders DP within himself and also your relationship with each other.

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