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nikkitheknitter 
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 Posted: 20 March 2007 at 10:14am |
Hannah is getting there - she has started saying he is cute now (she says everyone is cute... but Tobin wasn't cute for the first few days apparently). He has absolutely NO experience with kids... but is really trying! And doesn't even come across akward  Jute was laughing at him the other day as he has started to get a bit more assertive... Han has picked him for the weakest link in the household and knows she can get him to do her bidding. He's finally making a stand though. hehehehe
I love that he is trying. He isn't overly freaked by the kid thing at all! It's great
Anyway, Liz is going to meet him today (little does she know it) so she can give 3rd party review of Tobin 
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fattartsrock
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Posted: 20 March 2007 at 2:17pm |
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ooooh Liz, fill us in!
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The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P
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nikkitheknitter
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Posted: 21 March 2007 at 2:44pm |
She's in Wainuiomata with a crap internet connection... you'll have to wait 
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Posted: 24 March 2007 at 7:50pm |
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I'm BACK!!! well, in Palmerston with broadband thank god!!! Dad has DIAL UP and only 10 hours a MONTH!!!! I now have ten pages to scroll through.
Anyway, Tobin seemd very nice - but shy but then he had just met me and I think Nikki and I were talking aboput toilet training at one point - people's eyes tend to glaze over then. Medium height I think, dark hair....tattoes I think (should've taken a bloody picture)...pierced...something. Anyway, important thing was that the overall impression was very nice AND he held Nikki's hand down the street (hehehe)
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Posted: 25 March 2007 at 2:10pm |
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aaawwwww how sweet. I love it when guys do that, not afraid of PDA.
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Posted: 25 March 2007 at 4:59pm |
awww nikki sounds like you,ve got a keeper
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nikkitheknitter
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Posted: 27 March 2007 at 12:43pm |
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Posted: 27 March 2007 at 1:27pm |
so its all still good then?? 
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Posted: 27 March 2007 at 2:03pm |
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Yep. Pretty damn good. So easy to live with! I'm freaking myself by overanalysing everything but just need to remember to take a step back and look at it for what it is - the start of a relationship.
Hannah is not doing particularly well... I'm not used to this kind of stuff actually affecting her! I can't remember if I have rambled about it here already and to lazy to check back... but having Tobin around and combined with going back to creche 4 days a week has made her a super toad due to lack of attention from me. So I try... but she takes it out on poor Tobin.
She's getting there though. She snuggled up with him on the couch last night - that's progress.
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Roksana
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Posted: 27 March 2007 at 2:15pm |
Give her some time, its a big change for her. I am sure she will LOVE his as much as you do.
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Posted: 27 March 2007 at 2:41pm |
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A couple of days after we were back from our honeymoon, Kiya asked me when Daddy was going to go home! She was a little sad when I explained that now that we were married, Daddy was going to live with us. About a month ago, Nat was away for most of two weeks (but back for the weekend inbetween) and Kiya was so upset because she missed him so much!
It takes a little time, work and patience, but it is so worth it! Remember (and remind Tobin as he probably hasn't realised) Hannah is used to having your undivided attention. Its not really personal, it just feels like it. She'll come to realise that Tobin is just as important to Mummy as she is, but is NOT replacing her.
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Posted: 27 March 2007 at 8:04pm |
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Roksana -did you mean Hannah will love HIM or his ass? hehehe. i'm so bad!
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Posted: 28 March 2007 at 12:45pm |
Lol...naughty Liz!!
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