I’m so immature!

DH and I had a bit of a argument and today I went on a big spending spree- I went online and bought a whole lot more from pumpkin patch that I didn't get last time ($270 worth ), I got £40 worth of books I've been wanting to get off amazon, I went into town and spent £65 on clothes for the girls and £45 on clothes for me! I feel so stupid and immature- I spend money because I know its the thing that will upset him the most. He'll be mad but its my savings I spent too- I feel like a real d*ck at the moment.

Please people tell me stupid things you've done when you've been mad at your other halves so I don't feel like I'm the only twit out there!

lol I clean when I get angry too, not really a bad thing as when I calm down I think oh yay now I've got a clean house. I don't spend money though since I am the only budget police round here..hubby is terrible with money.

Me too I clean everything and vaccume in front of the TV hehe

i sulk! the most immature thing possible!

and yea i do everything around the house in bad grace too!

Peanut wrote: I tend to do everything and not let him do anything....its suppose to make him feel bad and guilty but I think its probably more of a reward

Me too... which is silly 'cause a lot of our arguments are over him not doing enough around the place! Talk about self-defeating!

One other time though I was serving up dinner, a favourite of DH and he did something to annoy me so I threw his dinner on the ground

I'm another sulker - I like your method better though Jennz!! Shame I know how much isn't in our bank accounts *sigh*.

I'm a tanty thrower too, if I am mad then the whole world knows about it. The most frustrating thing is that he usually gets in his car and takes off and by the time he comes back an hour or so later I'm over it, so I don't get the satisfaction of an audience when I'm throwing a tanty

I'm also a compulsive shopper but we have separate bank accts, money etc. so if I spend it's my own money and it doesn't have quite the same satisfaction...

Men should know they will never win, women are much more evil and cunning.

I usually sigh alot and I give him the silent treatment, not that he probably cares, then eventually I will end up shouting, swearing and bawling and lying on the bed, hoping he will come in and comfort me, which he usually does. Pathetic really.

Sometimes if I am sh*tty at him cos I feel like I am doing everything, he will offer help and I will have a mental at him and refuse his help, when I really could do with a break, I'm another self defeatest!!!

lol im a tanty thrower!! only ever since my 2nd pregnancy tho LOL

or ill sulk big time., and wont let him do anything at all, and try and be super mum, then i just get tired and even grumpier hahaha