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  | Rachael21   Senior Member
 
   
   
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  | mummyofprinces   Senior Member
 
   
   
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    Big        sweetie. 
 What a bitter, childish man.
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  | jack_&_charli   Senior Member
 
   
   
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  | Jennz   Senior Member
 
   
   
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        Aw Kandice that sounds awful! I agree with what everyone else has said- you're better off without that kind of person in your life, as is your precious wee girl.
 I can still imagine it hurts though      What a total utter prat.
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  | MissCandice   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   I just recieved a text from him that really upset me!
 it goes 'So is there something i can help u or your new adition to the human race with or did you just contact me cos you can'
 
 Shes my fricken daughter!
 
 What can i say to make him go away, i really regret contacting him and now i want him to stop texting me, its just getting worse
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     ~ Mummy to a beautiful girl ~
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  | caraMel   Senior Member
 
   
   
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     Mel, Mummy to E: 6, B: 4 and:
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  | surfergirl   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 10 June 2008 at 9:51am | 
 
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   This sounds like a really awful time for you, and the fact that it keeps on coming must be upsetting. 
 Just a suggestion...I wonder if texting is the best way to communicate, simply because things can be 'misheard' becuase there is no 'tone' - so if you are feeling hurt/anngry/upset (as you have a right to be) you read if differently than if you were feeling happy/neutral/blissful. 
 It's just a suggestion...big, big hugs for having to go through this. Maybe a 'real' conversation will allow you to close the door (if that's what you want) once and for all.    | 
 
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  | MissCandice   Senior Member
 
   
   
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     ~ Mummy to a beautiful girl ~
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  | .Mel   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   He's just trying to beat you down Kandice.  Get a new sim card.  It's the one way you are going to get any peace.  
 Dont continue texting him.
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  | nictoddie   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   He is the one missing out not only has he missed out watching you grow into be wonderful loving person he is missing out further on seeing your beautiful daughter .......... his grand daughter ....... go into one, ignore him he will go away and big hugs to you.
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  | caitlynsmygirl   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   Im so sorry Kandice, he doesnt have any right to treat you like this .....I would do what mel suggests, or can you get numbers blocked on your cell? 
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  | Bubbaloo   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   OMG Kandice what an arse         and as the others have said your family is way better of without him.
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       Was danni-chick Mum to James My Angel 28/07/08
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