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   minik8e  
   
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     Posted: 08 June 2008 at 6:35pm | 
 
 
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   Wow, there's NO WAY my parents would have supplied me with smokes (knowingly anyway...*sigh* I loved those days when you could buy cartons....).  I completely agree with you on this, and that is speaking as a smoker (DF and I have agreed we will give up when we get our BFP).  Especially with other young children around.
    
   
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     Posted: 08 June 2008 at 6:53pm | 
 
 
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   Hope Kelly(caitlynsmygirl) will give up when she has a BFP one day soon too
    
   
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     Posted: 08 June 2008 at 7:10pm | 
 
 
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   Woah, that is so bad.  Why doesn't he give her a 6-pack to take on her "walk" as well?
    
   
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     Posted: 08 June 2008 at 8:30pm | 
 
 
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   Emma - that totally sucks, you are trying to help her not have a disgusting addiction and Willie does that!! I guess its just his way of not having to 'deal' with it - but man, he SHOULDN'T be supplying her with cigarettes!!
 Make sure you make your point really clear - cos who knows, maybe he'll start letting Maya smoke too, which is totally unacceptable!!
 *hugs* hope you sort this out soon!
    
   
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     Posted: 08 June 2008 at 8:32pm | 
 
 
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   Well she didn't have a smoke on her walk coz Willie took them off her after I screamed at him. He's spent the rest of the night in the spare room sulking but i suspect he's more annoyed that he knows he's wrong rather than anything else.
 
 As for Mona, well she must know not to push her luck coz she is in the kitchen cleaning up...
    
   
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     Posted: 08 June 2008 at 8:33pm | 
 
 
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   Id be pissed as well he should have told u he was supplying her smokes as well but since she is his daughter its up to him.  He should at least make her work her ass off around the house for the smokes and even then she can only smoke outside and NEVER let the other children see her as part of the conditions.  At 15 i woulda quit after 1 day of chores i woulda been too lazy to keep it up if i had to work for it.  
    
   
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     Posted: 08 June 2008 at 8:49pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   Aww Emma     Thats a horrible situation to be in. But totally agree with you, so stick to your guns. I was smoking at 15 too but didnt smoke around my parents until I was about 19 because I felt disgusted about it (both my parents are non-smokers)     
On another note, last Tuesday Dh and I had hypnosis to stop the dirty habit and we've been smoke free since     
All the best Emma, I hope she realises the terrible effects it will eventually have on her and her loved ones. 
     
   
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     Posted: 08 June 2008 at 10:21pm | 
 
 
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   Yeah I would stick to my guns, I pay the goddam rent so my fricken house! It is basically illegal for her to smoke as well so him feeding her ciggy's is a million times worse. Oh Willy, you silly male.
    
   
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     Posted: 09 June 2008 at 10:35am | 
 
 
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   Yay...Good on you for sticking to your guns. I cant believe that Willie would do this to his daughter, his 3 other daughters and his very beautiful pregnant wife.
 
 You dont need this stress hun. So hope you can relax now that they both know where they stand.
 
 
    
   
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